Virginity until marriage is the source Maagdelike tot die huwelik is die bron

of world's harmony van die wêreld se harmonie

Integration of humanity with genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person? Integrasie van die mensdom met opregte respek vir die morele, sielkundige en fisiese integriteit van elke mens iemand? Yes. Ja.

Communicate to integrate! Kommunikeer te integreer!

Virgins until Marriage Maagde tot  Huwelik

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist: We are all neighbours in our global village. dr Z Halat, mediese epidemiologie konsultant, noxologist: Ons is almal in ons wêreld bure dorp. Respectful distance between neighbours is the recipe for harmonious relationships. An American philosopher and logician Willard Van Orman Quine once said: no entity without identity. Eerbiedig afstand tussen bure is die resep vir harmonieuse verhoudings. 'N Amerikaanse filosoof en logician Willard Van Orman Quine het eens gesê: geen entiteit sonder identiteit. From the history of my nation and my own professional experience I dare to add: Uit die geskiedenis van my volk en my eie professionele ervaring Ek durf te voeg:   identity integrity determines survival. identiteit integriteit bepaal oorlewing. The genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person is a prerequisite for the fair integration of humanity. Die ware respek vir die morele, sielkundige en fisiese integriteit van elke mens iemand is 'n voorvereiste vir die billike integrasie van die mensdom.

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The mission of the Virgins until Marriage  -  Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union (acronym: VM) is to promote a universal value of virginity until marriage with the "virginity is important!" Die doel van die maagd tot Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie (akroniem: VM) van maagdelikheid ter bevordering van 'n universele waarde tot die huwelik met die "maagdelike is belangrik!" slogan supported by an effective reward system action for virginity protection and by protest against abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins. slagspreuk ondersteun deur 'n effektiewe beloning stelsel aksie vir die beskerming en maagdelike protes teen mishandeling, marteling en vernedering van jongmeisies. Virginity as the source of world's harmony preserves morals, saves lives, decreases morbidity, boosts self-esteem, enhances careers, opposes slavery, counteracts crime, strengthens families, empowers communities, spares funds and therefore should be protected by all means available and not to a lesser extent than those pitiful and deadly ideas that violate human rights of the young ones of both genders and rob them of their unrenewable assets for profiteering or sheer pervert amusement. Maagdelike as die bron van die wêreld se harmonie bewaar sedes, red lewens, daal morbiditeit, gee jou selfbeeld, verhoog loopbane, teen slawerny, teenwerk misdaad, versterk families, bemagtig gemeenskappe, onderdele fondse en daarom moet beskerm word deur alle beskikbare hulpbronne en nie aan 'n mindere mate as dié jammerlike en dodelike idees wat menseregte skend, van die kleintjies van beide geslagte en beroof hulle van hul hernieuwbare bates vir winsmotief of verdraai pure vermaak. Virginophobia, ie the irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against virginity or virgins should be condemned and penalized, as well as the damage due to robbery of virginity fully compensated. Virginophobia, naamlik die irrasionele vrees vir, afkeer van, of diskriminasie teen die maagdelike of maagde moet wees veroordeel en gestraf word, sowel as die skade as gevolg van diefstal van die maagdelike ten volle vergoed.

Rationale Rasionaal

VM offers normal people (the helpless youth, worried parents and frustrated spouses among others) and their leaders a crucial solution for three menaces threatening both continents that the Mediterranean Sea touches. VM bied gewone mense (die hulpelose jeug, bekommerd en gefrustreerd gades ouers onder andere) en hul leiers 'n belangrike oplossing vir die drie bedreiging dreigende beide kontinente dat die Middellandse See raak. These are: demographic collapse, human rights violation, and disaster profiteering. Dit is: demografiese ineenstorting, skending van menseregte, en ramp winsmotief.

The epidemiological evidence is clear. Die epidemiologiese bewyse is duidelik. AIDS decimating Sub-Saharan Africa and chlamydiasis destroying fertility in Europe result from promiscuous voluntary activeness of one fifth of adults.  Themselves victims of human rights violation 'the walking sources of epidemics' proliferate their traumas and attack more and more young people of both genders. VIGS gedecimeerd Sub-Sahara Afrika en chlamydiasis vrugbaarheid in Europa vernietig as gevolg van promisku vrywillige activeness van 'n vyfde van die volwassenes slagoffers. Self skending van menseregte "die loop bronne van epidemies' korrek hul traumas en val meer en meer jong mense van beide geslagte. They are encouraged and easily excused by a news and entertainment industry hostile to universal values and supportive to mass disaster profiteers: pornography and prostitution business organizers, prophylaxis and treatment suppliers, and social structure disintegration instigators, agents of influence among them. Hulle word aangemoedig en maklik verskoon deur 'n nuus-en vermaak-industrie wat vyandiggesind teenoor die universele waardes en ondersteunend tot die massa ramp profiteurs: pornografie en prostitusie besigheid organiseerders, voorkoming en behandeling van verskaffers en die sosiale struktuur verbrokkel aanstokers, agente van die invloed onder hulle.

Those who lose their virginity early are more likely to have multiple sexual partners, fuel epidemics and social pathologies. Diegene wat vroeg verloor hul maagdelike is meer geneig om sosiale patologieë aan baie seksmaats gehad het, brandstof en epidemies.

Those who fight virginity with mockery, ridicule, and scorn are responsible for all the revealed and hidden harm they do. Diegene wat veg teen bespotting maagdelikheid, bespotting, en uitgelag is verantwoordelik vir al die skade aan die lig gebring en verborge wat hulle doen.

A common sense type preventive measure to physical and moral abuses of individuals that add to mass disasters caused by promiscuity is raising the “herd immunity”, as it is called in epidemiological jargon, by promotion of a universal value of virginity until marriage. 'N gesonde verstand tipe preventief die fisiese en morele misbruik van individue wat te voeg massa rampe veroorsaak deur wisselende is die verhoging van die "trop immuniteit", soos dit genoem word in epidemiologiese jargon, deur die bevordering van' n universele waarde van maagdelikheid tot die huwelik. The VM mission priorities are endorsed by lessons learnt from African (ie South Africa, Uganda, Sierra Leone) and European (OURSELVES FOR OURSELVES Youth Peer Education Movement in Poland), experiences, as well as the SILVER RING THING program, which encourages young adults to remain as a virgin until marriage, until recently funded by the US federal government. Die SM sending prioriteite word gerugsteun deur lesse geleer uit Afrika (bv. Suid-Afrika, Uganda, Sierra Leone) en die Europese (WIJ vir ons Jeug Portuur Voorligting Beweging in Pole), ervarings, sowel as die Silver Ring DING-program, wat moedig jong volwassenes te bly as 'n maagd tot en met die huwelik, tot onlangs befonds deur die Amerikaanse federale regering. Yes, we can! Ja, ons kan! In Africa and Europe now. In Afrika en Europa nou.

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  Promiscuity Losbandigheid

Sexually Transmitted Disease Prevention Seksueel Oordraagbare Siektes Voorkoming
according to mainstream science of medical epidemiology volgens die hoofstroom wetenskap van mediese epidemiologie
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Dr Halat's endless list of reasons to remain a virgin until marriage: Dr Halat se eindelose lys van redes 'n maagd te bly totdat die huwelik:

Reason # 1 Rede # 1

Be yourself, know your rights Wees jouself, ken jou regte
and don't let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh en moenie toelaat dat God deniers verander jy in 'n stuk van die vlees

Reason # 2 Rede # 2
Be safe, know the risks Wees veilig, weet wat die risiko's
and don't invite deadly diseases to ruin your en nooi nie dodelike siektes te ruïneer jou
and your future family's life en jou toekomstige familie se lewe

Reason # 3 Rede # 3
Be reasonable, know what really works Redelik wees, weet wat regtig werk

Reason # 4 Rede # 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges Wees self-vertroue, ken jou regte

Reason # 5 Rede # 5
Be secure, know the mutual committed love of husband and wife Wees verseker, weet dat die wedersydse gepleeg liefde van man en vrou

Reason # 6 Rede # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes' arguments to outsmart them Wees slim, weet die slinkse jakkalse se argumente om hulle te slim te wees

Reason # 7 Rede # 7
Be assertive, know how to love yourself Wees selfgeldend, weet hoe lief vir jouself te
so you know what pleases and hurts sodat jy weet wat wil en maak seer

Reason # 8 Rede # 8
Be patient, know how to become top apple Wees geduldig, weet hoe om bo appel

Reason # 9 Rede # 9
Be steadfast,  know how to be faithful Wees geduldig en weet hoe om getrou te wees
to your past, present and future own self om jou verlede, hede en toekoms eie self

Reason # 10 Rede # 10
Be distinct,  know the difference Onderskei word, weet die verskil

Reason # 11 Rede # 11
Be a winner, know better than losers Wees 'n wenner is, weet beter as verloorders

Reason # 12 Rede # 12
Be supported, know how to find a helping hand Ondersteun word, weet hoe om hand by te vind

Reason # 13 Rede # 13

Be wise, know the essentials of a good life since knowledge is power Wees wys, weet wat die vereistes vir 'n goeie lewe omdat kennis mag is

喜喜 ( 红双 喜 ) DOUBLE HAPPINESS 喜喜 (红双喜) Double Happiness

If you have reached this stage of physical and mental development that allows you to make an informed choice and if you are in a position to decide for yourself, As jy hierdie stadium bereik van fisiese en geestelike ontwikkeling wat op die hoogte kan jy 'n keuse te maak en as jy in' n posisie om te besluit vir jouself,   you may choose between a short-lasting pleasure with a casual lover or eternal happiness with a perfect lover – your spouse. jy kan kies tussen 'n kort-volhoubare plesier met' n tydelike of ewige geluk minnaar met 'n volkome liefde - jou gade.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS DIE KEUSE

The experience of the most successful nation, shared with the rest of the world Die ervaring van die mees suksesvolle nasie, gedeel met die res van die wêreld

by Lin Di deur Lin So

  Lin Di Perfect Ghost Lin So Perfect Gees    林笛 林笛    完美鬼魂 完美鬼魂

专辑中文名 : 秘密花园的邂逅 专辑中文名: 秘密花园的邂逅     歌手 : 林笛 歌手: 林笛

Album Chinese Name: Secret Garden Encounter Album Sjinees Naam: Secret Garden Encounter   Singer: Lin Di Sangeres: Lin So

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该专辑中有两首歌， Perfect Ghost （完美鬼魂），说的是：上天给每个人安排了一个完美的恋人，但并不是每个人都能够遇到那个人。当人们爱 上了别人，那个原本属于他（她）的完美恋人就变成了鬼魂。有时候，或许还会相会在梦里，或许在现实中感到若然所失，莫名地惦记某个不知名的灵魂。这是秘密 花园的邂逅，不是每一分钟都会发生，不是每一步都能令人察觉，但只要你真诚地希望，一些美妙的事情就会出现 ...... 该专辑中有两首歌, Perfect Gees (完美鬼魂),说的是:上天给每个人安排了一个完美的恋人,但并不是每个人都能够遇到那个人人们.当爱上了别人,那个原本属于他(她)的完美恋人就变成了鬼魂.有时候或许还会相会在梦里,或许在现实中感到若然所失,莫名地惦记某个不知名的灵魂.这是秘密花园的邂逅,不是每一分钟都会发生,不是每一步都能令人察觉,但只要你真诚地希望,一些美妙的事情就会出现 ......

The album has two songs, Perfect Ghost （完美鬼魂） that is: God gives everyone a perfect lover arranged, but not everyone can face that person. Die album is twee liedjies, Perfect Gees (完美鬼魂) wat is: God gee almal 'n volmaakte minnaar gereël, maar nie almal kan iemand gesig dat.   When people fall in love with someone else, that originally belonged to him (her) the perfect lover becomes a ghost. Wanneer mense val in die liefde met iemand anders, wat oorspronklik behoort aan hom (haar) die perfekte minnaar word 'n spook.   Sometimes, perhaps even meet in a dream, perhaps, in reality feel if I lost, but somehow misses the soul of an unknown. Soms, miskien selfs ontmoet in 'n droom, miskien, in werklikheid voel, as ek verloor, maar een of ander manier mis die siel van' n onbekende. This is the secret garden of the encounter, not every minute will occur, not every step can be very aware of, but as long as you sincerely hope that some of the wonderful things that will appear ...... Dit is die geheim van die ontmoeting, en nie elke minuut sal plaasvind, nie elke stap kan baie bewus is van, maar solank as wat jy hoop van harte dat sommige van die wonderlike dinge wat sal verskyn ......

Album track 02: 喜 Happiness Album hou 02: 喜 geluk

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For the sake of the new millennium generations Ter wille van die geslagte van die nuwe millennium

The first new millennium born teens will celebrate their 13th birthday on January 1st, 2014. Die eerste nuwe millennium gebore tieners sal hul 13de verjaarsdag vier op 1 Januarie 2014. There are circa 1,500 days until January 1st, 2014. Many of the tens of millions of year 2001 born children have been already irreversibly infected and mutilated, tortured physically and mentally, robbed of their virginity and converted to sex toys of perverts. Daar is ongeveer 1.500 dae tot 1 Januarie 2014 pervers was. Baie van die tien miljoene jaar 2001 gebore kinders is reeds besmet is onomkeerbaar en vermink, fisies en geestelik gemartel, beroof van hulle maagdelikheid en omgeskakel na seks speelgoed. But the vast majority are still waiting, unknowingly, for their chance to enter adulthood  spared from deadly disease and crippling disability. Maar die oorgrote meerderheid nog steeds wag, onwetend, vir hul kans om volwassenheid betree gespaar van dodelike siekte en verlammende gestremdheid. Within the 1,500 coming days, let us become people of good will who really try hard to initiate the great shift of consciousness for the sake of the new millennium generations. Binne die volgende paar dae 1.500, laat ons geword mense van goeie wil wat werklik hard probeer om geslagte te inisieer millennium die groot verskuiwing van bewussyn ter wille van die nuwe.

Dear friends, Liewe vriende,

Below, please find public health arguments to convince yourself, your loved ones, others like you, and the rest of the world. Hier vind u die openbare gesondheid argumente oortuig jouself, jou geliefdes, ander soos jy, en die res van die wêreld.
Should you find your role in the VIRGINS UNTIL MARRIAGE -  CIVIL SOCIETY ORGANIZATION OF  THE AFRICAN UNION AND THE EUROPEAN UNION project promising/satisfying/profitable enough Indien jy jou rol in die jongmeisies TOT huwelik - BURGERLIKE GEMEENSKAP volgorde van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie projek belowende / bevredigende / winsgewend genoeg , please do not hesitate, dear friends, to use social networking tools , Moet asseblief nie huiwer, liewe vriende, netwerke hulpmiddels te gebruik om sosiale ( Click to join Virgins_until_Marriage ). ( Klik op Virgins_until_Marriage te sluit ).

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist dr Z Halat, mediese epidemiologie konsultant, noxologist
Project designer, Virgins until Marriage Project ontwerper, jonkvroue tot Huwelik

Chairman, The John Snow International Society for Common Sense in Public Health Voorsitter, Die John Snow Internasionale Vereniging vir die Common Sense in Openbare Gesondheid

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Epidemiology: Epidemiologie:
the study (health surveys, observation, hypothesis testing, analytic research, and experiments) die studie (gesondheid ondersoek, observasie, hipotesetoetsing, analitiese navorsing, en eksperimente)
of the distribution (analysis by time, place, and classes of persons affected) van die verspreiding (analise deur tyd, plek, en klasse van persone wat geraak word)
and determinants (physical, biological, social, cultural, and behavioural factors that influence health) en determinante (fisiese, biologiese, maatskaplike, kulturele en gedrag faktore wat die gesondheid)
of health-related states or events (diseases, causes of death, behaviour such as promiscuity, other van gesondheid-verwante state of gebeure (siektes, veroorsaak van dood, gedrag, soos losbandigheid, ander social pathologies, sosiale patologieë, reactions to preventive regimens) antwoorde op voorkomende regimens)
in specified populations (identifiable characteristics such as precisely defined numbers) in sekere bevolkings (identifiseerbare eienskappe soos presies gedefinieer nommers)
and the application of this study to control health problems (to promote, protect, and restore health) en die toepassing van hierdie studie te bevorder, te beheer gesondheid probleme (te beskerm, en die herstel van gesondheid)
prof. prof. J Last J Laaste

Noxology: Noxology:
Noxology, health hazards science, is a branch of epidemiology and is the scientific study of  harmful factors, taking into account a number of usually ignored aspects of the health hazards impact on humans, which include varied susceptibility of individuals (families, communities, nations) to a harmful factor acting alone or together with others, exhibiting a synergistic effects on health.  In noxology, the starting point of the diagnostic process is the cause of health-related states or events investigated on individual, family, community, national, or global level (compare: Posita causa, ponitur effectus and Nihil fit sine causa). Noxology, gesondheidsgevare wetenskap, is 'n tak van epidemiologie en is die wetenskaplike studie van skadelike faktore, met inagneming van' n aantal gewoonlik geïgnoreer aspekte van die gesondheidsgevare impak op die mens, wat insluit gevarieerde vatbaarheid van individue (gesinne, gemeenskappe, nasies) na 'n skadelike faktor optree alleen of saam met ander, vertoon' n sinergistiese effek op die gesondheid. In noxology, is die beginpunt van die diagnostiese proses is die oorsaak van gesondheid verwante state of gebeure ondersoek op individuele, familie, gemeenskap, die nasionale, of internasionale vlak (vergelyk: Posita causa, ponitur Effectus en sine causa Nihil pas).
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Dr Halat's endless list of reasons to remain a virgin until marriage Dr Halat se eindelose lys van redes 'n maagd te bly totdat die huwelik

Reason # 1 Rede # 1
Be yourself, know your rights and don't let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh. Wees jouself, ken jou regte en moenie toelaat dat God deniers verander jy in 'n stuk van vlees gee.

A universal value of virginity until marriage is a spiritual obligation of two major world religions which are declared by more than half of citizens of the member countries of the African Union and the European Union (African population: 45.8% Muslims, 15.3% Roman Catholics; non-Eastern European population: 54.8% Roman Catholics, 4.3% Muslims), therefore a fundamental human right, freedom of religion of Muslims, Catholics, and any of affected spiritual minorities living on the territory of the two blocks is undoubtedly violated in all instances of abuse, torture and humiliation of virgins, virginophobia, and robbery of virginity. 'N universele waarde van maagdelikheid tot die huwelik is' n geestelike verpligting van die twee groot wêreld gelowe wat Romeinse Katolieke verklaar word deur meer as die helfte van die burgers van die lidlande van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie (Afrikaanse bevolking: 45,8% Moslems, 15,3%; nie-Oos-Europese bevolking: 54,8% Rooms-Katolieke, Moslems 4,3%), dus 'n fundamentele reg van die mens, die vryheid van godsdiens van Moslems, Katolieke, en enige van die betrokke geestelike minderhede woon op die grondgebied van die twee blokke is ongetwyfeld geskend in alle gevalle van mishandeling, marteling en vernedering van die maagde, virginophobia, en roof van maagdelike staat neem. Universal declarations of human rights provide a range of tools to protect  physical, moral and psychological integrity of virgins, regardless of religion or beliefs. Universele verklarings van menseregte sal bied 'n verskeidenheid van instrumente te beskerm fisiese, morele en psigologiese integriteit van die maagde, ongeag godsdiens of geloofsoortuiging. Human rights law provides the international standards to make judgments about individual responsibility for their violation. more Wet maak voorsiening menseregte, die internasionale standaarde hul oortreding te maak besluite oor individuele verantwoordelikheid. meer

Dehumanization by coercion and Pavlovian conditioning. Ontmensliking deur dwang en Pavlov conditioning.
God deniers use coercion and Pavlovian conditioning to deprive you God gebruik deniers dwang en Pavlov conditioning ontneem jy
of physical, moral and psychological integrity of human person. van fisiese, morele en psigiese integriteit van die menslike persoon.
Be yourself, do not let them transform you into a piece of flesh. Wees jouself, laat dit nie jy sit in 'n stuk vleis.

Reason # 2 Rede # 2
Be safe, know the risks Wees veilig, weet wat die risiko's

and don't invite deadly diseases en nooi nie dodelike siektes
to ruin your and your future family's life. te ruïneer jou en jou toekomstige familie se lewe.

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) mostly go unnoticed until it is too late and the consequences of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) become incurable. Asking questions “Do you have AIDS, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, herpes, trichomonas, candida, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, CMV infection, genital warts (including these types that  cause cervical cancer), and the like?” makes no sense since infected people simply have no idea what they carry and transmit to others. Seksueel oordraagbare infeksies (SOI's) gaan meestal ongesiens totdat dit te laat is en die gevolge van seksueel oordraagbare siektes (SOS'e) ongeneeslike geword. Stel vrae "Het jy aids, gonorrhea, chlamydia, sifilis, herpes, trichomonas, candida, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, CMV infeksie, genitale vratte (insluitend dié soort wat veroorsaak dat servikale kanker), en dies meer? "maak nie sin nie, aangesien besmette mense net ander het geen idee wat hulle dra en stuur. Only a doctor can diagnose an STI, because the signs and symptoms of STDs vary and overlap  with symptoms of other STDs and all other diseases. Slegs 'n dokter te kan diagnoseer' n seksueel oordraagbare siektes, omdat die tekens en simptome van seksueel oordraagbare siektes wissel en oorvleuel met simptome van ander seksueel oordraagbare siektes en alle ander siektes. It may create a sense of false security asking “Have you been tested for HIV/AIDS?” since an infected person can transmit HIV during the window period, which is the time from getting infected until a blood test can detect any change. Dit kan vra skep 'n gevoel van valse sekuriteit "Het jy al getoets is vir MIV / vigs te verander?" Is, omdat' n besmette persoon MIV kan oordra in die venster periode, wat is die tyd om besmet totdat 'n bloed toets' n kan waarneem. Much more effective would be avoiding risks of deadly diseases by following, if possible, the strict rules of The UK National Blood Service which say plainly who can't give blood . Baie meer doeltreffend sou wees vermy risiko's van dodelike siektes deur die volgende, indien moontlik, die streng reëls van die Britse Nasionale Bloeddiens wat duidelik sê wat nie kan gee bloed. Those who can't give blood because they are or might be infected with HIV, hepatitis B, C and/or syphilis etc. can't be regarded as safe and might be   held liable for passing an STI to a virgin unaware of risky behaviours of his or her partner. more Diegene wat nie kan bloed gee want hulle is of kan word met MIV besmet is, hepatitis B, C en / of sifilis ens kan nie beskou word as veilig en kan aanspreeklik gehou word vir die aanname van 'n seksueel oordraagbare siektes na' n maagd nie bewus van riskante gedrag van sy of haar partner. meer

Afro-European Sexually Transmitted Diseases Afro-Europese Seksueel Oordraagbare Siektes
Prevention Network Voorkoming Netwerk
AE STDs PN AE SOS'e PK

AE STDs PN AE SOS'e PK

Reason # 3 Rede # 3
Be reasonable, know what really works. Redelik wees, weet wat werklik werk.

Higher levels of family religiosity, including parents' beliefs, prayer and religious service practices, and the frequency of family participation in religious activities,  contribute to decreased sexual initiation among adolescents, older age at coitarche and indirectly to decreased sexual partners. Hoër vlakke van die gesin godsdienstigheid, insluitende die ouers se geloof, gebed en godsdienstige praktyke, en die frekwensie van die familie deelname aan godsdienstige aktiwiteite, dra by tot verminderde seksuele inleiding onder adolessente, ouer ouderdom by coitarche en indirek te verminder seksuele maats. Having a two-parent family and parents who encourage their children to avoid having sex are also associated with a decrease in sexual exposures. Abstinence programs encourage unmarried individuals to abstain from sexual activity as the best and only certain way to protect themselves from exposure to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Na 'n twee-ouer familie en ouers wat hul kinders aanmoedig om te verhoed om seks te hê is ook geassosieer met' n afname in seksuele blootstelling. Onthouding programme moedig ongetroude individue te onthou van seksuele aktiwiteit as die beste en slegs sekere manier om hulself te beskerm teen blootstelling aan MIV en ander seksueel oordraagbare infeksies. Abstinence until marriage programs are particularly important for young people, as approximately half of all new infections occur in the 15- to 24-year-old age group. Delaying first sexual encounter can have a significant impact on the health and well-being of adolescents and on the progress of the epidemic in communities.  The younger people are when having sex for the first time, the more susceptible they become to developing an STD. Onthouding tot die huwelik programme is veral belangrik vir jong mense, soos ongeveer die helfte van alle nuwe infeksies kom voor in die 15 - tot 24-jaar-oue ouderdoms groep. Vertraging eerste seksuele ontmoeting kan adolessente het 'n beduidende impak op die gesondheid en welsyn van en op die verloop van die epidemie in gemeenskappe. Die jonger mense is as om seks te hê vir die eerste keer, hoe meer sensitief raak hulle tot ontwikkeling van 'n STD. The risk of acquiring an STD also increases with the number of partners over a lifetime.  Immaturity of the cervix of the womb in teenagers and young women means that its protective barrier is weak and only 1 cell thick (30 - 40 cells thick in older women). Die risiko van die verkryging van 'n STD ook toe met die getal vennote oor' n leeftyd. Onvolwassenheid van die serviks van die skoot in tieners en jong vroue beteken dat sy beskermende laag is swak en net 1 sel dik is (30-40 selle dik in ouer vroue ). During sexual intercourse germs causing STIs get easily inoculated into the immature cervix. Tydens seksuele omgang kieme veroorsaak SOI's kry maklik ingeënt in die onvolwasse serviks. This is why non virgin girls under the age of 20 have higher rates of infection of HIV than older women or young men. Dit is die rede waarom nie maagd meisies onder die ouderdom van 20 het hoër pryse van infeksie van MIV as ouer vroue en jong mense. AIDS (caused by HIV), cervical cancer (caused by high-risk HPVs types 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, and 73 ), infertility, ectopic pregnancy and other complications of pelvic inflammatory disease (caused by chlamydial and other STIs) constitute a price of sexual intercourses under the age of 20. Vigs (wat veroorsaak word deur MIV), servikale kanker (wat veroorsaak word deur hoë-risiko HPVs tipes 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, en 73), onvrugbaarheid , ektopiese swangerskap en ander komplikasies van pelviese inflammatoriese siekte (veroorsaak deur Chlamydia en ander SOI's) vorm 'n prys van seksuele intercourses onder die ouderdom van 20. Montse Magadan became HIV positive when she lost her virginity, aged 16.  Prevention of cervical cancer can be achieved in one of two ways: preventing infection initially or detecting the precursors to cervical cancer and providing treatment. Montse Magadan geword toe sy MIV-positief is verloor haar maagdelike staat, tussen die ouderdomme 16 kanker. Voorkoming van servikale bereik kan word in een van twee maniere: voorkoming van infeksie aanvanklik of opsporing van die voorlopers te servikale kanker en die verskaffing van behandeling. The former method is called primary prevention and can be accomplished by avoiding exposure to the virus through abstinence from sexual activity or through  mutual monogamy forever, provided both partners—not just one—are consistently monogamous and were not previously infected. Die voormalige metode staan bekend as primêre voorkoming en kan bereik deur te vermy blootstelling aan die virus deur die onthouding van seksuele aktiwiteit of deur middel van wedersydse monogamie vir ewig, wat beide vennote-nie net een-is konsekwent monogame en was nie voorheen besmet is. Condoms provide only about 70% protection against HPV when used all of the time. more Kondome verskaf slegs sowat 70% beskerming teen MPV toe gebruik al die tyd. meer

Manufactured sex toys can be cleansed. Vervaardig seks speelgoed kan gesuiwer word. To some extent. Tot 'n mate.
Human sex toys can't be cleansed. Menslike geslag speelgoed kan nie herstel word. No way. Geen manier.

Reason # 4 Rede # 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges. Wees self-vertroue, ken jou regte.

There is a large time gap between puberty and maturity. Daar is 'n groot tyd verskil tussen die puberteit en volwassenheid. All of us are born as virgins but normal people do not dispute over virginity of newborns. The same normal people cast doubts on the value of virginity of immature teenagers who have not reached this stage of physical and mental development that allows them to make an informed choice. Almal van ons is gebore as maagde, maar gewone mense nie saak oor die maagdelike van pasgeborenes. Dieselfde gewone mense gegooi twyfel oor die waarde van maagdelikheid van onvolwasse tieners wat nie bereik het in hierdie stadium van fisiese en geestelike ontwikkeling wat hulle in staat stel om 'n ingeligte keuse. Immature young people are privileged by laws protecting their undisturbed development and should be aware of their privileges since convicted pedophiles who rape minors and condemned ephebophiles who ruin lives of mid-to-late adolescents are just the tip of the iceberg of those who persuade, induce, entice, or coerce minor children and adolescents to engage in activities which shorten the inborn stage of virginity. Onvolwasse jong mense is bevoorreg om deur wette die beskerming van hulle ongestoord ontwikkeling en moet bewus wees van hul regte sedert veroordeelde pedofiele, wat verkragting van minderjariges en veroordeel ephebophiles wat adolessente ondergang lewens van die middel-tot-laat is net die punt van die ysberg van diegene wat oortuig is, veroorsaak , oorhaal, of dwing minderjarige kinders en tieners om deel te neem aan aktiwiteite wat die ingebore maagdelike korter fase van. Legal protection of virginity is nothing but a minimum national effort granted to virgins to protect their human rights and in fact legitimatises cruel exploitation of those young people who in spite of having reached the age of consent are still far (5 and many more years ahead) from being physically, mentally, and socially ready to take responsibility for their choices. Regs beskerming van die maagdelike is niks anders as 'n minimum nasionale poging maagde verleen aan die beskerming van menseregte en in werklikheid hul legitimatises wrede uitbuiting van diegene wat jong mense wat ten spyte van die bereik van die ouderdom van toestemming is nog ver (5 en nog vele meer jare wat voorlê) van wat fisies, verstandelik, sosiaal en gereed is om verantwoordelikheid te neem vir hul keuses. Sound families, communities and nations strive to protect all developmental stages of their teenagers and young adults and support protection of virginity until marriage. Sound gesinne, gemeenskappe en nasies strewe van die maagdelike te beskerm alle stadia van hul ontwikkeling tieners en jong volwassenes en steun tot die beskerming van die huwelik. These efforts are being undermined by discreditors of virginity who simply surrender to the culture of rape. Hierdie pogings word ondermyn deur discreditors van maagdelikheid wat net oorgee aan die kultuur van verkragting. Here is an example of counterproductive reasoning: “Another harmful cultural belief that makes women vulnerable to contracting HIV is the value placed on virginity. Hier is 'n voorbeeld van contra redeneer: "Nog' n skadelike kulturele geloof dat maak vroue vatbaar vir MIV is die waarde geplaas op die maagdom. In some cultures, people believe that if a man has sex with a virgin woman, he will be cleansed of his infections. In sommige kulture, mense glo dat indien 'n man seks het met' n maagd vrou, hy sal gereinig word van sy infeksies. Young, virgin girls and women are at a higher risk of being raped by men influenced by this common misperception. Jong, jonkvrou, meisies en vroue is op 'n hoër risiko om verkrag deur mans beïnvloed deur hierdie misverstand kom dikwels voor. These girls and women are especially vulnerable to HIV because of the distinct injuries that result from forced sexual activity and the likelihood that their perpetrators have had multiple sexual partners.” more Hierdie meisies en vroue is veral kwesbaar vir MIV as gevolg van die duidelike beserings wat die gevolg van gedwonge seksuele aktiwiteit en die kans dat hulle oortreders seksuele maats gehad het verskeie ". meer

I am a teen. Ek is 'n tiener. It is obvious, I am a virgin. Dit is duidelik, ek is 'n maagd.

WORLD DAY WêRELD DAG
FOR THE PREVENTION Vir die voorkoming
OF VIOLENCE AGAINST VIRGINS Van geweld teen VIRGINS
18th November November 18

Blessed Carolina Kozka Geseënd Carolina Kozka
(Polish: Karolina Kózkówna) (Pools: Karolina Kózkówna)
(1898 - 1914) (1898 - 1914)

In the midst of the storm of the First World War, when she was only sixteen she sacrificed her life to God, killed by a Russian soldier as she resisted his advances. In die middel van die storm van die Eerste Wêreldoorlog, toe sy net sestien was het sy haar lewe opgeoffer om God, vermoor deur 'n Russiese soldaat soos sy weerstaan sy vooruitgang. The war broke out in July 1914. Die oorlog uitgebreek het in Julie 1914. In November the Russian army cleared the Vistula River. In November het die Russiese leër die skoonmaak van die Vistula Rivier. On November 10 they captured Tarnow and on November 17 they captured Zabawa and Wal-Ruda. Op 10 November hulle gevang Tarnow en op 17 November hulle gevang Zabawa en Wal-Ruda. The situation was getting dangerous; there were threats of confiscations so people were trying to hide their properties in the forest. Everyone was telling about Russian soldiers who were raping young women. Everyone was terrified. Die situasie is steeds gevaarlik, want daar was dreigemente van onteigening sodat mense het probeer om weg te steek die bos hul eiendomme in.. Almal was vertel Russiese soldate wat verkragting van jong vroue Almal was verskrik.

At the first day of occupation a soldier came to Kozka's house but he left after having a meal. The next day, on November 18, at about 9 am another armed Russian soldier came to their house. Op die eerste dag van die besetting het 'n soldaat se huis Kozka maar hy het nadat hy' n maaltyd. Die volgende dag, op 18 November, by ongeveer 9 uur 'n ander gewapende Russiese soldaat het na hul huis. He asked about the Austrian army, he refused to have a meal and told Karolina and her father to go with them, allegedly to the commanding officer. Hy het gevra oor die Oostenrykse weermag, het hy geweier om 'n maaltyd te hê en vertel Karolina en haar vader te gaan saam met hulle, na bewering aan die bevelvoerder. He led them towards the forest but when they reached the edge of it, the soldier told Karolina's father to leave them and go back home. Hy het hulle na die bos, maar wanneer hulle tot die rand van hulle, die soldaat Karolina se pa vertel om hulle te verlaat en gaan terug huis toe. The terrorized man turned back, leaving his daughter alone with soldier. Die terroriseer man het omgedraai en sy dogter vertrek alleen met soldaat. The witnesses of the imminent events were two boys coming back towards the village. Die getuies van die gebeure is op hande en twee seuns terug te kom na die dorp. They hid themselves behind the bushes and saw Karolina struggling with an assailant and running towards the swamps that turned out to be the rescue for her as they made the chase difficult for the soldier. Hulle het hulle weggesteek agter die bosse en sien sukkel met 'n Karolina aanvaller en hardloop na die moeras wat opgedaag het om die redding vir haar as hulle die jag moeilik vir die soldaat. He abandoned the chase when he saw that she fall dead of loss of blood. Hy verlaat die jag toe hy sien dat sy dood val van die verlies van bloed. Her body was found only on December 4. Haar liggaam is slegs op 4 Desember. The wounds she sustained do bear witness to the greatness of her suffering and show her heroic defence of her innocence and purity. Die wonde opgedoen het sy getuig van die grootheid van sy lyding en laat haar heldhaftige verdediging van haar onskuld en reinheid. A carefully prepared report describes thoroughly the place of her martyrdom and claims the intact virginity of the Martyr. 'N deeglik voorberei deeglik verslag beskryf die plek van haar martel en eise van die ongeskonde maagdelike van die Martelaar. Having imitated Christ already in her life, and always obedient to the will of God, in the last moments of her life she refused to sin and accepted her own death as the greatest  confirmation of her love of God. Gelet nageboots Christus reeds in haar lewe, en altyd gehoorsaam aan die wil van God, in die laaste oomblikke van haar lewe het sy geweier om die sonde en aanvaar haar eie dood as die grootste bevestiging van haar liefde van God. Thus Karolina was conformed to Christ in the shedding of her blood. So Karolina is gelykvormig te wees aan Christus in die verlies van haar bloed. (...) On June 30, 1986 in the presence of Pope John Paul II, the "decree of the martyrdom of the Servant of God, Karolina Kozka" was proclaimed. (...) Op 30 Junie 1986 in die teenwoordigheid van Pous Johannes Paulus II, die "wet van die martelaarskap van die dienaar van God, Karolina Kozka" geproklameer. Her beatification took place on June 10, 1987, during the third pastoral visit of His Holiness to his native country, Poland. Haar zaligverklaring plaasgevind het op 10 Junie, 1987, tydens die derde pastorale besoek van Sy Heiligheid in sy geboorteland, Pole. Since then the cult of the Blessed Karolina is spreading all over the world.  (...) Her relics were procured by numerous communities in USA, Kazakhstan, Peru, Chad, and Congo and many churches in Poland as well. Sedertdien het die kultus van die geseënde God Karolina is versprei oor die hele wêreld voorkom. (...) Haar liggaam is verkry deur talle gemeenskappe in die VSA, Kazakhstan, Peru, Chad, en die Kongo, en baie kerke in Pole. She is the patron saint of the Diocese of Rzeszów as well as many parishes. Sy is die beskermheilige van die Bisdom van Rzeszów sowel as baie gemeentes. The Blessed Karolina is regarded by most of people, parishioners and pilgrims as well, as the great example to people of the Third Millennium because of her humility, courage and trust in God. Die Geseënd Karolina beskou word deur die meeste van die mense, gemeentelede en bywoners sowel as die groot voorbeeld vir die mense van die derde millennium as gevolg van haar nederigheid, moed en vertroue in God. She is a sign for those who are looking for the way of salvation, who want to become a saint. Sy is 'n teken vir diegene wat op soek is na die pad van verlossing, wat wil' n saint. She is the patron of youths and farmers. more Karolina Kozka life's story Sy is die beskermheer van jeugdiges en boere. meer Karolina Kozka lewe se storie

Reason # 5 Rede # 5

Be secure, know Wees verseker, weet the mutual committed die onderlinge verbintenis
love of husband and wife. liefde van man en vrou.

Apart from its holistic, spiritual, and emotional context, for men and women marriage means knowing what to expect, belonging to one's self-formed family, rasing happy children, and being helped in need. Afgesien van sy holistiese, geestelike en emosionele konteks, vir mans en vroue huwelik beteken om te weet wat om te verwag, wat deel uitmaak van 'n mens se self-gevorm familie, Rasing gelukkige kinders, en word gehelp in nood.

The most important part of a Catholic wedding is the exchange of vows: Die belangrikste deel van 'n Katolieke troue is die uitruil van geloftes:
Groom: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my wife. Groom: Ek, (naam), neem jy, (naam), aan my vrou te wees. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. Ek belowe om waar te wees, kan u in goeie tye en in slegte, in siekte en gesondheid. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life. Ek sal jou liefhê en eer jy al die dae van my lewe.

  Bride: I, (name), take you, (name), to be my husband. Bruid: Ek, (naam), neem jy, (naam), aan my man wees. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. Ek belowe om waar te wees, kan u in goeie tye en in slegte, in siekte en gesondheid. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life. Ek sal jou liefhê en eer jy al die dae van my lewe.

Muslim couples do not generally recite vows but rather listen to the words of the imam, or cleric, who speaks about the significance of the commitment of the marriage and the couple's responsibilities toward each other and Allah. However, some Muslim brides and grooms do choose to also exchange vows: Moslem paartjies dra gewoonlik nie geloftes, maar eerder luister na die woorde van die imam, of dominees, wat aan die woord oor die betekenis van die verbintenis van die huwelik en die egpaar se verantwoordelikhede teenoor mekaar en Allah. Alhoewel sommige Moslem bruidsparen nie kies wissel ook geloftes:

Bride: "I, (name), offer you myself in marriage and in accordance with the instructions of the Holy Koran and the Holy Prophet, peace and blessing be upon him. I pledge, in honesty and with sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful wife." Bruid: "Ek, (naam), bied u self in die huwelik en in ooreenstemming met die instruksies van die Heilige Koran en die Heilige Profeet, vrede en seën op hom belofte. Ek in eerlikheid en met opregtheid, te wees vir jou 'n gehoorsame en getroue vrou. "

Groom: "I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you a faithful and helpful husband." Groom: "Ek belowe, eerlik en opreg te wees vir jou 'n betroubare en nuttige man."

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VIRGINITY UNTIL MARRIAGE TOT maagdelike HUWELIJKS
FRESHNESS SAFETY CAPS VEILIGHEID FRISHEID CAPS

Virginity until marriage freshness safety caps: open with marriage vow Tot die huwelik maagdelike veiligheid varsheid pette: open met 'n huwelik gelofte

Reason # 6 Rede # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes' tricks Wees slim, weet die slinkse jakkalse truuks
to outsmart them. slim om dit te.

Virgins seem easy prey for mischievous predators who exploit ruthlessly fundamental human needs of love, respect, intimacy and belonging, as well as strong sexual urges in minors, adolescents and not-yet-married adults.  A simple trick like hugging, especially for women, releases neurochemicals that can increase trust in the hugger. Jonkvroue lyk ondergang maklike prooi vir roofdiere, wat ontgin volwassenes genadeloos fundamentele menslike behoeftes van die liefde, respek, intimiteit en behoort, asook sterk seksuele impulse in minderjariges, jeug-en nie-nog-getroud is. 'N eenvoudige strik soos drukkies, veral vir vroue, vrystellings neurochemicals wat kan 'n groter vertroue in die ters. After a hug lasting 20 seconds, the brain produces oxytocin that turns on the trust response and dulls more critical judgment.  Touching on the shoulder, the side of the waist, arms or hands plays a similar role in seduce tactics. Na 'n drukkie volhoubare 20 sekondes die brein veroorsaak dat die beurte oksitosien op die trust reaksie en dulls meer kritiese oordeel. Dieper in op die skouer, aan die kant van die heupe, arms of hande speel' n soortgelyke rol in die mislei taktiek. Generous compliments, series of jokes, humour, funny stories, suddenly discovered common interests and hobbies, all may lead to infatuation and its grave consequences. Komplimente vrygewige, serie van grappe, humor, grappige stories, skielik ontdek gemeenskaplike belange en belangstellings, kan alles lei tot verdwaasd en die ernstige gevolge. Experienced seducers view their victims as nothing but sex toys. Ervare sien hulle slagoffers bedrieërs soos niks, maar seks speelgoed. They even pretend to be passionately in love with their prey until they get bored and find an easy excuse to cease  the relationship. Hulle het selfs voor te gee om in liefde met passie met hulle buit totdat hulle verveeld en soek 'n maklike verskoning om op te hou om die verhouding. The everlasting love suggestions and promises prove deceitful soon after the virgin gives up her irrenewable asset. Die ewige liefde en beloftes bewys voorstelle bedrieglike kort na die jongmeisie gee haar irrenewable bate. Virginity robbing from immature virgins and virginity stealing from mature but still naive virgins are common crimes of deception which almost never get punished and redressed. Maagdelikheid beroof van onvolwasse maagde en maagdelikheid steel van volwasse maar nog steeds naïef jonkvroue is gemeenskaplike misdade van bedrog wat byna nooit gestraf kry en opgehef. Cunning foxes triumph over their victims with great self-satisfaction and are applauded by other human rights violators. Slinkse jakkalse oorwinning oor hulle vyande met hul groot tevredenheid self en is lof deur ander menseregte-oortreders. Some serial devirginators use comically ridiculous arguments to manipulate their victims. Sommige seriële devirginators comically belaglik argumente gebruik om hulle slagoffers te manipuleer. Probably most stupid is here: “Humans are no better than other animals and hence can't resist animal instincts". Someone who can't tell the difference between humans and animals is a soul denier and is far more wrong than hymen deniers, since a congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare as a part of severe genital  malformations (ICD -10: Q52.0   Congenital absence of vagina, Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva). Judging 'better' humans or animals, forgetting elaborated courtship rituals in animals, not realizing differences in brain size and functioning of humans and bonobo chimpanzees says a lot about those who use such arguments to take the virginity of the human person. Luckily, mature virgins are smarter and know how to dismiss such as nonsense. Smart virgins know the science behind gender dimorphism which is physical and behavioral differences associated with sex. more Waarskynlik die mees dom is hier: "Die mens is nie beter as ander diere en dus nie kan weerstaan dierlike instinkte". Iemand wat nie kan diere vertel die verskil tussen mens en is 'n siel denier en is veel meer verkeerd as die hymen deniers, aangesien 'n aangebore gebrek aan hymen buitengewoon voorkom, is egter baie skaars as' n deel van ernstige seksuele afwykings (OKD -10: Kongenitale Q52.0 afwesigheid van vagina, Q52.7 Kongenitale afwesigheid van vulva). Beoordeling "beter" mense of diere, te vergeet opgestel hofmakery rituele in diere, nie besef die verskille in die brein grootte en werking van die mens en sjimpansees Bonobo sê baie argumente oor diegene wat so 'n menslike persoon gebruik te neem om die maagdelikheid van die land. Maak volwasse jonkvroue is slimmer en weet hoe om te ignoreer soos daai weet. Smart jongmeisies vir die wetenskap agter geslag dimorfisme wat fisiese en gedrag verskille wat verband hou met geslag. meer

Virginity and devirginization: Maagdelikheid en devirginization:
first sexual intercourse is the most memorable milestone eerste seksuele omgang is die mees gedenkwaardige mylpaal
of human development from birth to death van menslike ontwikkeling vanaf geboorte tot die dood

If you loved me truly you'd wait until we're married. As jy waarlik liefgehad het jy wag totdat ons getroud is.

Reason # 7 Rede # 7
Be assertive, know how to love yourself Wees selfgeldend, weet hoe lief vir jouself te
so you know what pleases and hurts. sodat jy weet wat wil en maak seer.

Do people hate you, humiliate you, ridicule you? Het die mense julle haat, verneder jou, verkleineer jy? That's not important. Dit is nie belangrik nie. God loves you! God is lief vir jou! There are at least two reasons why God loves you so much. Daar is ten minste twee redes waarom God so baie lief vir jou. First, it is His nature to love. Eerstens, dit is Sy natuur om lief te hê. God is love. God is liefde. Love is the word that best describes God's nature. Liefde is die woord wat die beste uit die natuur beskryf God se. Second, you are His creation. Tweede, jy is Sy skepping. God loves you just as good earthly parents love their offspring. God het jou lief net soos goeie aardse ouers is lief vir hulle nageslag. People may not seem very special to others, but to their mother and father they are always special. Mense kan nie so baie spesiaal wees vir ander nie, maar om hul ma en pa hulle altyd spesiaal. This should help you understand how God could really like you -- even though you may not like yourself very much. Dit moet help om te verstaan hoe God regtig kon soos jy - selfs as jy nie jouself kan hou baie van jou. Also, God sees you as you can be and will become - not just as you are now. Ook, God sien jou as wat jy kan en sal word - nie net soos jy nou is. God has faith in you and in His ability to make you someone special. God het geloof in jou en in sy vermoë om te sorg dat jy iemand spesiaals. Feeling not good enough?  Don't panic. Gevoel nie goed genoeg nie? Moet nie paniekerig. God doesn't love you because you are a good person or do everything right. God het nie lief vir jou omdat jy 'n goeie mens of dit alles reg. If you have accepted merciful God, nothing can separate you from His love. As jy barmhartige God aanvaar het, kan niks jou van Sy aparte liefde. Due to God's mercy, even your sins can't separate you from God. As gevolg van God se genade, selfs jou sondes wat jy nie kan skei van God. We all sin. Ons het almal sonde. We all are forgiven if we confess and repent our sins, and want to do everything in our power to redress the past. Ons is vergewe as ons bely en berou oor ons sondes, en wil alles in ons vermoë om die verlede reg te stel. In return, you are obliged to  love all the people  and treat other people the way that you would want to be treated. God is the All-Peace, the All-Merciful.  God loves you, but do you love yourself?  No one is going to love you if you don't love yourself. It is not your fault if you don't love yourself and you can't love other people, and because of it no one loves you. In ruil daarvoor, jy is verplig om die mense lief te hê en mense behandel al die ander op die manier waarop jy graag behandel wil word. God is die Al-Vrede, die All-Genadevol. God is lief vir jou, maar dink jy vir jouself lief wees? Niemand is lief vir jou te gaan as jy nie jouself lief skuld. Dit is nie jou as jy nie jouself lief te hê en jy kan nie ander mense liefde, en omdat dit nie 'n lief vir jou. Many of us have been taught to hate ourselves, to consider ourselves less equal and to think our needs are not important—just by the very act of abuse. Baie van ons geleer is om onsself te haat, oorweeg dit om onsself te min gelyk en ons behoeftes te dink nie belangrik is-net deur 'n daad van mishandeling. The act of neglect, of sexual or physical abuse, and of ritual abuse all carry the message that we weren't worthy of loving, compassionate treatment. Die daad van verwaarlosing, van seksuele of liggaamlike mishandeling, en van die ritueel misbruik al dra die boodskap dat ons nie waardig is van die liefdevolle, barmhartige behandeling. If we received verbal or emotional abuse that told us even more overtly that we were worthless, trash, or to be hated, well, those messages just piled up inside. As ons ontvang verbale of emosionele mishandeling wat nog meer het ons vertel openlik dat ons waardeloos, asblik, of gehaat te word, goed, die boodskappe net opgestapel binne. Abusers often foster or encourage self-hate messages, because it makes their victims more compliant and easy to abuse. Misbruik dikwels bevorder of stimuleer self-haat, boodskappe, want dit maak hulle slagoffers meer voldoen en maklik om te misbruik. ...but those messages aren't true. ... Maar die boodskappe is nie waar nie. They are tools used by abusers to break spirits and continue abuse. Hulle is instrumente wat gebruik word deur die misbruik geeste te breek en misbruik deur te gaan. To start loving yourself you need to make a list of your assets. Om te begin jouself lief te hê moet jy jou bates te maak 'n lys van. On the top of the list put your finest assets, particularly the unrenewable ones. Op die top van die lys wat jou beste bates, veral die hernieuwbare kinders. Is virginity still among them? more Is maagdelikheid nog steeds onder hulle? meer

I tshitshi limnandi itshitshi limnandi njengoshukela Ek tshitshi limnandi itshitshi limnandi njengoshukela
(a virgin is sweet, a virgin is sugar sweet) ('N maagd is soet,' n jongmeisie is suiker soet)

Johnny Clegg & Juluka - Tatazela 1997 Johnny Clegg & Juluka - Tatazela 1997

(on You Tube) (Op You Tube)
Lyrics Lyrics

Love Is Just A Dream (Tatazela) Liefde is net 'n droom (Tatazela)

Reason # 8 Rede # 8
Be patient, know how to become top apple. Wees geduldig, weet hoe om te appel bo geword.

“Women are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. "Vroue is soos appels aan die bome, die beste manier is op die top van die boom. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Die manne wil nie te kom vir die goeie daaruit omdat hulle bang is om te val en dit nie wil seerkry. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. In plaas daarvan, het hulle het net die vrot appels uit die grond wat nie so goed nie, behalwe maklik. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. So, die appels aan die bokant dink dat daar iets fout is met hulle, toe hulle in werklikheid is amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.”- Author unknown, but sounds sexist. Why not to add:  “Men are like apples on trees, the best ones are on the top of the tree. Hulle het net om te wag vir die regte man om saam te kom, die een wat braaf genoeg om die kwaliteit te klim al die pad na bo omdat hulle waarde. "- Outeur onbekend, maar geluide seksistiese. Waarom nie by te voeg:" Mans is soos appels op die bome, die beste manier is op die top van die boom. The women don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and don't want to get hurt. Die vroue wil nie te kom vir die goeie daaruit omdat hulle bang is om te val en dit nie wil seerkry. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't so good but easy. In plaas daarvan, het hulle het net die vrot appels uit die grond wat nie so goed nie, behalwe maklik. So, the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right woman to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.” more So, die appels aan die bokant dink dat daar iets fout is met hulle, as hulle in werklikheid het hulle is amazing. Hulle het net moet wag vir die regte vrou om mee te gaan, die een wat braaf genoeg om die waarde te klim al die pad na bo, omdat hulle kwaliteit ". meer

I haven't been married yet. Ek het nog nie getroud is nie. No wonder I'm still a virgin. Geen wonder ek nog steeds 'n maagd.

St. Valentine Patron Saint of Virgins until Marriage St Valentine patrones van Maagden tot Huwelik
Patron Saint of Young People, Love, Affianced Couples, Happy Marriages Patrones van Young Peoples, liefde, Affianced Stellenbosch, Happy Huwelike

Valentinus was a holy priest in Rome, who assisted the martyrs in the persecution under Emperor Claudius II. Valentinus was 'n heilige priester in Rome, wat help om die martelaars II in die vervolging onder keiser Claudius. Since he was caught marrying Christian couples and aiding any Christians who were being persecuted under Emperor Claudius in Rome, when helping them was considered a crime, Valentinus was arrested and imprisoned. Sedert hy was gevang Christelike paartjies te trou en ondersteuning vir enige Christene wat vervolg word keiser Claudius onder in Rome, toe help hulle was beskou as 'n misdaad, was Valentinus gearresteer en tronk. Claudius took a liking to this prisoner - until Valentinus made a strategic error: he tried to convert the Emperor - whereupon this priest was condemned to death. Claudius het 'n hou van hierdie gevangene - totdat Valentinus' n strategiese fout: hy probeer het om die keiser te omskep - waarna die priester dood veroordeel is. He was beaten with clubs and stoned; when that didn't do it, he was beheaded outside the Flaminian Gate circa 269. Hy is geslaan met klubs en gestenig; wanneer dit nie gedoen nie, was hy buite die Flaminian onthoof Gate omtrent 269. While awaiting his execution, Valentinus restored the sight of his jailer's blind daughter. Terwyl sy wag vir die uitvoering, Valentinus herstel voor die oë van sy tronkbewaarder se blinde dogter. On the eve of his death, he penned a farewell note to the jailer's daughter, signing it, "From your Valentine." Op die vooraand van sy dood, het hy 'n afskeid geskryfde nota tot die tronkbewaarder se dogter, onderteken, "Van jou Valentyn."

Reason # 9 Rede # 9
Be steadfast,  know how to be faithful Wees geduldig en weet hoe om getrou te wees
to your past, present and future own self . om jou verlede, hede en toekoms eie self.

The primordial tradition of celebrating women as virgins has been most impressively restored to humanity in 1984 by His Majesty Goodwill Zwelithini kaBhekuzulu, the reigning king of the Zulu nation. Die primordiale tradisie van vier vroue as maagde het die meeste indrukwekkend is herstel aan die mensdom in 1984 deur Goodwill Zwelithini Sy Majesteit kaBhekuzulu, die huidige koning van die Zoeloe-nasie. The event was started about 200 years ago during the reign of King Shaka Zulu and was stopped in 1879 when King Cetshwayo was arrested by British colonialists. Die byeenkoms begin ongeveer 200 jaar gelede tydens die bewind van Koning Shaka Zoeloe en is gestaak in 1879 toe Koning Cetshwayo is in hegtenis geneem deur die Britse kolonialiste. As the custodian of Zulu traditions and customs, King Zwelithini has revived cultural functions such as the Umhlanga, the colourful and symbolic reed dance ceremony helping the girls to preserve their virginity until they get married. Soos die bewaarder van die Zoeloe-tradisies en gewoontes, het koning Zwelithini herleef kulturele funksies, soos die Umhlanga, die kleurvolle en simboliese seremonie riet dans die meisies help om hul maagdelike in stand te hou totdat hulle trou. Once a year, during the second week of September, tens of thousands of virgins travel to the Zulu nation's royal residence at KwaNyokeni Palace in Nongoma to take part in the Royal Reed Dance festival (Umkhosi woMhlanga in the Zulu language).  The girls must pass a virginity test to attend. Intense counseling sessions are held on the Friday and Saturday morning where senior women from the Royal House and the community counsel the young girls on Zulu traditional values, the do's and don'ts for young women, and how to deal with rape, which is at epidemic levels in South Africa. Een keer per jaar, gedurende die tweede week van September, tien duisende maagde reis na die Zoeloe-nasie se koninklike verblyf by KwaNyokeni Palace in Nongoma deel te neem in die Royal Lees Dance Festival (Umkhosi woMhlanga in die Zoeloe-taal). Die meisies moet slaag 'n maagdelike toets sessies by te woon. Intense berading is gehou op die Vrydag en Saterdag oggend waar senior vroue van die koninklike huis en die gemeenskap oorleg het die jong meisies op die Zoeloe-tradisionele waardes, die moets en moenies vir jong vroue, en hoe om te gaan met die verkragting wat by epidemiese vlakke in Suid-Afrika. The main attraction of the ceremony is the presentation of the reeds by maidens to the King. Die hoof aantrekkingskrag van die seremonie is die aanbieding van die riete deur diensmeisies aan die Koning. Maidens in traditional regalia take turns in dancing in a variety of styles in front of the King. Maidens in die tradisionele regalia maak beurte in die dans in 'n verskeidenheid van style in die voorkant van die Koning. This has a historical and symbolic significance in that it marks the contribution made by maidens in building the nation. Dit het 'n historiese en simboliese betekenis in dat dit dui op die bydrae van meisies in die bou van die nasie. The girls practice this ritual on their own free will and are proud to do so.  Each maiden carries a reed which has been cut by the riverbed and it symbolizes the power that is vested in nature. Die meisies oefen hierdie ritueel op hul eie vrye wil en is trots om dit te doen. Elke meisie dra 'n Riet wat uitgeroei rivierbedding die deur en dit simboliseer die krag wat die natuur in berus. It is believed that if a young woman who is not a virgin takes part in the ceremony, her reed breaks, which embarrasses her in front of the assembled guests and her parents. Daar word geglo dat as 'n jong vrou wat nie' n maagd neem deel aan die seremonie, haar riet breek, wat haar in embarrasses voorkant van die saamgestelde gaste en haar ouers. If the reeds do break, girls defend themselves by saying that it has been broken by the wind. As die riete nie breek, die meisies hom verdedig deur te sê dat dit gebreek is deur die wind.
In recognition of their contribution to sustainable human development the Zulu virgins and their leaders should be praised worldwide. Ter erkenning van hul bydrae tot die volhoubare menslike ontwikkeling, die Zoeloe-maagde en hul leiers wêreldwyd geprys moet word. Therefore, Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union declared ALL VIRGINS' DAY which is a feast celebrated in early September in honour of all the virgins, known and unknown. Ngiyabonga! Daarom, jonkvroue tot Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie verklaar ALLE VIRGINS 'DAG wat is' n fees gevier word in die begin van September, ter ere van al die jongmeisies, bekend en onbekend. Ngiyabonga! (means Thank you! in isiZulu, the language of the Zulu people). more (Beteken Thank you! In isiZulu, die taal van die Zoeloe-mense). meer

Virginity. The essence of adolescence. Maagdom. Die kern van adolessensie.


THE DAY OF ALL VIRGINS DIE DAG VAN ALLE VIRGINS
early September die begin van September

The Zulu Kings Reed Dance at eNyokeni Palace, uMkhosi woMhlanga early September Die Zoeloe-konings Lees Dans op eNyokeni Palace, die begin van September uMkhosi woMhlanga

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Reason # 10 Rede # 10
Be distinct, know the difference. Onderskei word, weet wat die verskil maak.

Virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse  Sexual intercourse (also called coitus, or copulation) is reproductive act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract. Virgin is 'n persoon wat nog nooit seksuele omgang gehad het Seksuele omgang (ook bekend as coitus, of paring) is voortplanting op te tree in waar die manlike geslagsorgaan gaan die vroulike voortplantingstelsel kanaal. If the reproductive act is complete, sperm cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process fertilizing the female egg and forming a new organism. Sexual intercourse is sex, but "sex" is not limited to intercourse; not even limited, in fact, to genital activities. As die reproduktiewe handeling voltooi is, is verby spermselle van die manlike liggaam in die vrou, in die proses mis die vroulike eier en die vorming van 'n nuwe organisme gemeenskap. Seksuele is seks nie, maar "geslag" is nie beperk tot die gemeenskap, nie selfs beperkte , in werklikheid, tot seksuele aktiwiteite. In reality, "sex" describes a huge range of activities. In werklikheid is "seks" beskryf 'n groot verskeidenheid van aktiwiteite. This is half of a dialectic: many things can be sex because sex has whatever meaning we experience moment by moment; and sex has an infinite range of meanings because the scope of activities that can properly be called sexual is so vast.”  One of the best-known sound bites of Bill Clinton's presidency was denial: “I did not have sexual relations with that woman”. Dit is die helfte van 'n dialektiese: baie dinge kan wees, want seks is seks wat beteken dat ons elke oomblik ervaar, en seks het' n oneindige verskeidenheid van betekenisse, omdat die omvang van die aktiwiteite wat behoorlik kan genoem word seksuele is so groot. "Een van die mees bekende geluid van Bill Clinton se presidentskap was ontkenning: "Ek het nie seksuele verhoudings met daardie vrou". Clinton later stated that he believed the agreed-upon definition of sexual relations excluded his receiving oral sex. Clinton later verklaar dat hy geglo het dat die ooreengekome definisie van seksuele verhoudings buite sy ontvangs van orale seks. NB. NB. All penetrative sex (where the penis enters the vagina, mouth, or anus) carries risk of STIs for both, lessened to some extent by condoms. There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity with one exception, which is presence of the halat hymen at the opening of the vagina. The hymen is a body part, also known as virginal membrane, it is a tight or loose and flexible rim, fringe of tissue around the vaginal opening that partly covers the entrance to the vagina of a virgin. Alle penetratiewe seks (waar die penis die vagina binnedring, mond, of anus) dra risiko van SOI vir beide, verminder tot 'n mate van kondome. Daar is geen mediese tekens en simptome van man of vrou met' n uitsondering maagdelikheid, wat is die teenwoordigheid van die halat hymen by die opening van die vagina. Die hymen is 'n liggaam deel, ook bekend as maagd membraan, is dit' n stywe of los en buigsaam rand, byvoordele van weefsel in die vaginale opening wat gedeeltelik te dek die ingang van die vagina van 'n maagd. While the professionally detected presence of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity, the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin.  An innocent, pure, or prudent virgin can be robbed of her virginity and remain innocent, pure, or prudent. Hoewel die teenwoordigheid van professioneel bespeur 'n sekere tipe heel hymen dui maagdelikheid, die afwesigheid van een is beslis nie' n bewys van 'n vrou is nie' n maagd. 'N onskuldige, suiwer, of verstandige maagd kan beroof word van haar maagdelike staat en bly onskuldige, suiwer , of wys. However virgins rarely are asexual. Maar selde is aseksuele maagde. Sexually active virgins have nothing to do with innocence, purity, or prudence but still preserve their virginity. Seksueel aktief is maagde het niks te doen het met onskuld, reinheid, of versigtig maar nog steeds hul maagdelike bewaar. Until marriage. Tot die huwelik. If lucky. As gelukkig. And wise. more En wys. meer

There are no medical signs and symptoms of male or female virginity Daar is geen mediese tekens en simptome van man of vrou maagdelike
with one exception, which is presence of met een uitsondering, wat is die teenwoordigheid van

the halat hymen at the opening of the vagina. die halat hymen by die opening van die vagina.
While the professionally detected presence Hoewel die professionele bespeur teenwoordigheid
of a certain type of intact hymen indicates virginity, van 'n sekere tipe heel hymen dui maagd
the absence of one is definitely not a proof a woman is not a virgin. die afwesigheid van een is beslis nie 'n bewys van' n vrou is nie 'n maagd.
Dr Halat's arguments against non-professional virginity testing. Dr Halat se argumente teen die nie-professionele maagdelike keuring.

A virgin. 'N maagd. Is his/her V-card fraudulent or genuine? Is sy / haar V-kaart bedrieglike of ware?

A fraud is an intentional deception made for personal gain. 'N bedrog is' n opsetlike misleiding gemaak vir persoonlike gewin.

A virgin 'N maagd

Virginity Maagdelike

Reason # 11 Rede # 11
Be winner, know better than losers. Wees wenner is, weet beter as verloorders.

There are many ways to sluttify virgins. Daar is baie maniere om sluttify maagde. A gang rape to make an abducted virgin ready for prostitution is the way generally considered most outrageous. 'N bende verkragting te maak' n ontvoerde maagd gereed vir prostitusie is die manier waarop die algemeen beskou as die mees skande. The rape victim's coping mechanisms rarely make the trauma bearable. Die verkragting slagoffer se hanteringsmeganismes selde die trauma draaglik te maak. Even drugs, alcohol and forced sex fail to erase memories of normal life and morals. Selfs dwelms, alkohol en seks gedwing misluk en moraal uit te vee herinneringe van die gewone lewe. Logically, virgins coerced into prostitution are prostitutes but not sluts. Logies, jonkvroue in prostitusie gedwing is prostitute, maar nie hoere. The other pole of the sluttification process is linked to incest. Die ander pool van die sluttification proses is gekoppel aan bloedskande. There are two kinds of incest:  direct incest, which is overt sexual activity between family members other than spouses; and indirect incest, the providing of children by their parents to others in order for them to be sexually abused. Daar is twee soorte van bloedskande: direkte bloedskande, wat openlike seksuele aktiwiteit tussen familielede anders as huweliksmaats, en indirekte bloedskande, die verskaffing van kinders deur hul ouers aan ander om vir hulle te wees seksueel misbruik. Parents and guardians who allow their child to be abused by other family members, friends, acquaintances, caretakers or teachers, as well as by entertainment industry products, schooling system, and public space exhibitions and events, are as much responsible for ruined lives as those who commit direct incest.  Thus parents and guardians are guilty of premature and therefore forced sexualization of their young ones, who become addicted to sexual gratification offered and/or witnessed by paedophiliacs.  Too early and unnecessarily discovered power of sexual pleasure undermines the age-appropriate education and formation, opens wide the gates to promiscuity, pornography, drugs, alcohol, gambling, shopping and many other deadly addictions. Ouers en voogde wat toelaat dat hul kind te word misbruik deur ander familielede, vriende, kennisse, opsigters of onderwysers, sowel as deur die entertainment industrie produkte, onderwys stelsel, en die openbare ruimte uitstallings en gebeure, is verantwoordelik vir soveel lewens verwoes as dié wat bloedskande pleeg gelas. So ouers en voogde is skuldig aan voorbarig en dus gedwing sexualization van hulle kleintjies, wat verslaafd raak aan seksuele bevrediging wat aangebied word en / of getuig paedophiliacs. Te vroeg en onnodig ontdek krag van seksuele plesier ondermyn die ouderdom-toepaslike opvoeding en vorming, wye oop die poorte van losbandigheid, pornografie, dwelms, alkohol, dobbel, winkels en vele ander dodelike verslawing. Addicts are easy to manipulate. Verslaafdes is maklik om te manipuleer. This is why sluttification from the cradle is so eagerly supported by corrupted elites and tycoons. Dit is die rede waarom sluttification van die wieg is so vurig ondersteun deur korrupte elite en tycoons. Along with discovering sexual gratification other rewards in exchange for sexual favours are desired. Saam met die ontdekking van seksuele bevrediging ander belonings in ruil vir seksuele gunste is wat verlang word. There are entertainments, gifts, money. Daar is vermaaklikhede, geskenke, geld. Not knowingly a sluttified virgin turns into an underage prostitute. In such an destructive environment, more sooner than later a virgin loses his or her virginity. Nie willens en wetens 'n maagd sluttified omskep in' n minderjarige prostituut. In so 'n vernietigende omgewing, meer eerder as later' n maagd verloor sy of haar maagdelike staat neem. A prematurely deflorated child or adolescent becomes a community role model, noxious to human health and well-being, infinitely magnified by mass media scorn for virgins waiting until marriage. 'N vroeg kind of adolessent deflorated' n gemeenskap word rolmodel, skadelike vir menslike gesondheid en welstand, oneindig versterk deur massa-media spot vir maagde wag tot die huwelik. These virgins who enjoyed a privilege of having good parents and guardians and were efficiently protected from forced sexualization until maturity, and their virginity hasn't been robbed nor stolen, can finally decide if they want to lose or offer their virginity. more Die maagde wat 'n voorreg geniet voogde van' n goeie ouers en en was gedwing om doeltreffend te beskerm teen sexualization tot volwassenheid, en hulle maagdelikheid beroof is nie, of gesteel word, kan uiteindelik besluit of hulle wil verloor of maagdelike bied hul. meer

WORLD DAY WêRELD DAG
FOR THE PREVENTION Vir die voorkoming
OF CHILD ABUSE Van kindermishandeling
19th November November 19

Fyah Muma (Queen Ifrica): Fyah Muma (Koningin Ifrica):
My music is music of upliftment. My musiek is musiek van opheffing.
It is music that teaches. Dit is musiek wat leer. It shows you how not to complain, Dit wys jou hoe om te kla nie,
but to seek solutions for yourself maar probeer om oplossings te vir jouself

Daddy Pappa
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lyrics lyrics

Reason # 12 Rede # 12
Be supported, know how to find a helping hand. Ondersteun word, weet hoe om hand by te vind.

The human being can hardly live on without friends. Die mens kan nie lewe sonder vriende. If they are people of goodwill, your friends will offer you moral and psychological support on your way from the family you were born and grown up in to the family you will establish with your future spouse. As hulle is mense van goeie wil, vriende sal jou bied jou morele en sielkundige steun op pad van die gesin jy gebore is en grootgeword het by die gesin wat jy sal vestig met jou toekomstige eggenoot. What if, at the end of the day, your friends you relied on prove malicious or simply stupid? Wat as, aan die einde van die dag, jou vriende wat jy het staatgemaak op bewys kwaadwillige of net dom? Never forget the famous Latin phrase "Multi multa, nemo omnia novit (many know many things; no one knows everything)" and in case you are forced by your best friends to do something you really hate, just say “no” and consult someone else. Moet nooit vergeet van die beroemde Latynse frase "Multi Multa, nemo omnia novit (baie weet baie dinge, en niemand weet alles)" en in die geval dat jy word gedwing om deur jou beste vriende regtig haat om te doen iets wat jy net sê "nee" en raadpleeg iemand anders. Whom? Wie? Your priest or imam, your family member, or any other person of strong opinions you can trust with all your secrets and you don't risk being rejected or exploited. Jou priester of imam, jou familie lid, of enige ander persoon van die sterk menings wat jy kan vertrou met al jou geheime en jy waag dit nie verwerp word of uitgebuit. You are not alone! Jy is nie alleen nie! Find information on the internet to see how many people globally share exactly the same challenge you have. Vind inligting oor die internet om te sien hoe baie mense wêreldwyd te deel presies dieselfde uitdaging wat jy moet. They share your challenges and they get contradictory advice. Hulle deel jou uitdagings en hulle kry teenstrydige raad. Much of the advice does not fit to your ideals, beliefs and ethics, much is just full of rudeness, contempt, trickery and other forms of dignity violation. Baie van die advies wat nie pas nie by jou ideale, oortuigings en etiek, baie is net vol van lomp, minagting, sluheid en ander vorme van waardigheid skend. Finally you would like to discuss your challenges in a supportive group of peers. This is what Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of  the African Union and the European Union is created for. more Ten slotte wil jy jou uitdagings te bespreek in 'n ondersteunende groep van eweknieë.. Dit is wat Maagden tot Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie is geskep vir die meer

United we stand, divided we fall United we stand, verdeeld val ons

Social networking Sosiale netwerk

(A) Virginity testing (A) maagdelikheidstoetsing

Dr Halat's arguments against non-professional virginity testing Dr Halat se argumente teen die nie-professionele maagdelike keuring

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All women are born with a hymen. Alle vroue is gebore met 'n hymen.

A congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare 'N aangebore gebrek aan hymen buitengewoon voorkom, is egter baie skaars

as a part of severe genital as 'n deel van ernstige seksuele   malformations: misvorming:

Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina Kongenitale Q52.0 afwesigheid van vagina

Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva Kongenitale Q52.7 afwesigheid van vulva

International Statistical Classification of Diseases Internasionale Statistiese Klassifikasie van siektes

and Related Health Problems en Verwante Gesondheid Probleme

10th Revision Version for 2007 ( ICD -10 ) 10 Verander Weergawe vir 2007 (OKD -10)

Chapter XVII: Hoofstuk Sewentien:

Congenital malformations, deformations and Aangebore afwykings, vervormingen en

chromosomal abnormalities (Q00-Q99) chromosomale abnormaliteite (Q00-Q99)

: Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina : Q52.0 Kongenitale afwesigheid van vagina

: Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva : Q52.7 Kongenitale afwesigheid van vulva

There are many different types of hymens. Daar is baie verskillende tipes van hymens.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymens Tipiese tornable / rekbare hymens

  can be torn with finger(s), object(s), and penis(es) kan word verskeur met vinger (s), item (s), en die penis (es)

and if torn they remain torn and present notches en as hulle nog altyd verskeur verskeurde en huidige kerwe   / clefts / Rotse

or they heal with scars hardly detectable of hulle genees met die letsels skaars waarneembaar

without specialist testing techniques. sonder spesialis toets tegnieke.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymen Tipiese tornable / rekbare hymen

Two types of hymens that stand at opposite poles Twee tipes hymens wat staan by teenoorgestelde pole

as regards their value in professional virginity testing ten aansien van die waarde daarvan in professionele maagdelike keuring

are described below. word hieronder beskryf.

Typical elastic hymen Tipiese elastiese hymen

can be stretched with fingers(s), object(s), and penis(es) gerek kan word met die vingers (s), item (s), en die penis (es)

and regains its original shape sooner or later after. en regains sy oorspronklike vorm vroeër of later, na.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a finger or an object Oprekken van die elastiese hymen met 'n vinger of' n voorwerp

does not end virginity. maagdelike eindig nie.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a penis ends virginity. Oprekken van die elastiese hymen met 'n penis eindig maagdom.

Because the elastic hymen regains it shape sooner or later after stretching(s) Omdat die elastiese hymen regains dit vroeër of later na die vorm wat strek (s)

the regular medical examination results are inconclusive, die gereelde mediese ondersoek resultate nie beslissend

some specialist testing techniques are available though. 'n spesialis toets tegnieke is beskikbaar though.

Typical elastic hymen Tipiese elastiese hymen

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen Bedrog-bewys hymen - halat hymen

has sieve openings or a partitioned opening, het sif openinge of 'n afgeskorte opening

and if found on medical examination is an indisputable proof of virginity. en indien gevind word op mediese ondersoek is 'n onweerlegbare bewys van maagdelikheid.

Like any other type of hymen the halat hymen Soos enige ander tipe hymen die halat hymen

can be torn with a finger, object, and penis. kan word verskeur met 'n vinger, voorwerp, en die penis.

Tearing the halat hymen with a penis ends virginity. Skeur die hymen halat eindig met 'n penis maagdom.

Tearing the halat hymen with a finger or an object Skeur die halat hymen met 'n vinger of' n voorwerp

does not end virginity but deprives the virgin eindig nie, maar ontneem die maagdelike maagd

of her indisputable proof of virginity. van haar onmiskenbare bewys van maagdelikheid.

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen Bedrog-bewys hymen - halat hymen

The imperforate, cribriform, and septate hymens frequencies of occurrence differ considerably due to variety of interrelated genetic and environmental factors influencing the reproductive system development. Die tande, getralied, en septate die frekwensie van die voorkoms hymens verskil aansienlik as gevolg van genetiese verskeidenheid onderling en omgewing faktore wat die reproduktiewe stelsel ontwikkeling. The global average estimated from scarce medical evidence could range from 3 % to 4 %. Die wêreldwye gemiddelde geskatte van skaars mediese bewyse kon wissel van 3% tot 4%. In some populations the imperforate hymen can be diagnosed in 0.1 % of newborns and requires a small surgical intervention as soon as possible after birth to enable undisturbed development of the genital tract and save the girl from unnecessary suffering and embarrassment in case the surgery would be postponed until she develops signs and symptoms of hematocolpos during puberty. In sommige populasies die tande van die hymen kan word gediagnoseer pasgeborenes in die 0,1% en is 'n klein chirurgiese ingryping so gou as moontlik na geboorte in staat te stel genitale traktus ongestoord ontwikkeling van die te red en die meisie van onnodige lyding en verleentheid in die geval van die operasie sou word uitgestel ontwikkel totdat sy tekens en simptome van hematocolpos tydens puberteit. If the surgery is properly done and well documented, the patient reaching her marriageable age enjoys the same opportunities of offering her husband a fraud-free hymen as other halat hymen gifted women do. Indien die operasie is goed gedoen word en goed gedokumenteer, die pasiënt haar huwbare ouderdom bereik dieselfde geleenthede geniet van die aanbied van haar man 'n bedrog-vrye hymen as ander halat hymen begaafde vroue doen.

The hymen Die hymen

Virginity testing Maagdelike keuring

(B) Genital mutilation (B) genitale verminking

Do It Yourself: Blood Spurting Knife Wound Doen-dit-self: Bloed Spurting Mes Wond

This cutting off is NOT real Dit is NIE af te sny ware

  see here how to fake a loss of a body organ kyk hier hoe om valse 'n verlies van' n liggaam orrel

(C) Masturbation (C) Masturbasie

(D) Condom use (D) die gebruik van kondome
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(E) HPV Vaccination (E) HPV Inenting
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(F) Self examination (F) self ondersoek
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(G) Kegel exercise (G) Kegel oefening
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(H) Control of sexuality (T) op Beheer van seksualiteit

The three dams strategy of control of sexuality Die drie damme strategie van beheer van seksualiteit

Rivers of life before junction. Riviere van die lewe voor die aansluiting.

Innocence (what is sex?) Innocence (wat is seks?)

Purity (no sex) Purity (geen seks)

Prudence (no direct contact sex) Prudence (geen direkte kontak met seks)

Virginity (no penis - Maagdelike (geen penis -   in - in -   vagina sex). vagina seks).

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VIRGINITY IS IMPORTANT! Maagdelike IS BELANGRIK!
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Virgins until Marriage Maagde tot Huwelik

- Civil Society - Civil Society   Organization Organisasie

of the African Union van die Afrika Unie

and the European Union en die Europese Unie

"Virgins until marriage" "Maagd tot en met die huwelik"
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Virginity Magazine Maagdelike Magazine

The International Society Die Internasionale Vereniging
for the Scientific Study of Virginity vir die wetenskaplike studie van die Maagd Schap

Acta Virginologica Acta Virginologica
Journal of the International Society for the Scientific Study of Virginity Tydskrif van die Internasionale Vereniging vir die wetenskaplike studie van die Maagd Schap

Afro-European Sexually Transmitted Diseases Prevention Network Afro-Europese Seksueel Oordraagbare Siektes Voorkoming Netwerk

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CEMI – ZEMI CEMI - ZEMI

Virginity and personal health Maagdelikheid en persoonlike gesondheid

Medical Examination prior to Sexual Intercourse Mediese eksamen voor Sexual Inter

Prenuptial Medical Certificate Mediese Sertifikaat voorhuwelikse

Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union عذراء حتى الزواج -- منظمات المجتمع المدني من الاتحاد الافريقي والاتحاد الاوروبي  Maagde tot het Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie Virgjër deri Martesa - Organizata të Shoqërisë Civile të Bashkimit Afrikan dhe Bashkimi Evropian Կույսեր մինչեւ Հարսանիք - ին Քաղաքացիական հասարակության կազմակերպում Աֆրիկյան Միության եւ Եվրոպական Միության Bakirə qədər nigah - Vətəndaş Cəmiyyəti Təşkilatı Afrika İttifaqı və Avropa Birliyi Birjin arte Ezkontza - Civil Society de Afrikako Batasunaren eta Europako Batasunaren Erakundea Нявінніца да шлюбу - Грамадзянскае грамадства Арганізацыя Афрыканскага саюза і Еўрапейскага саюза Девственици до брак - Гражданско общество Организация на Африканския съюз и на Европейския съюз Verges fins el matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea Virginitat fins al matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea 直到婚姻处女 - 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Sosyete Sivil Òganizasyon nan Inyon Afriken ak Inyon Ewopeyen an בתולות עד החתונה - חברה אזרחית ארגון האיחוד האפריקאי והאיחוד האירופי Bikirori har aure, aikin jam'iyyoyi ƙungiyar gamayyar afurka da Kungiyar Tarayyar Turai शादी तक कुंवारी - सिविल सोसायटी अफ्रीकी संघ और यूरोपीय संघ के संगठन Szüzek, amíg Házasság - Civil Társadalom Szervezete, az Afrikai Unió és az Európai Unió Meyjar þar Hjónaband - Borgaraleg Samfélag Samtök Afríkuríkja sambandsins og Evrópusambandið Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Organisasi Masyarakat Sipil Uni Afrika dan Uni Eropa Maighdeana go dtí Pósadh - le Sochaí Sibhialta Eagraíocht an Aontas na hAfraice agus an Aontais Eorpaigh Vergini fino al matrimonio - Organizzazione della società civile dell'Unione africana e l'Unione Europea 結婚するまで処女-市民社会組織は、アフリカ連合と欧州連 合の 결혼하기 전까지 처녀 - 시민 사회 조직 아프리카 연합과 유럽 연합의 Jaunavas līdz Marriage - pilsoniskās sabiedrības organizācijas no Āfrikas Savienības un Eiropas Savienība Девици се до брак - граѓанското општество Организација на Африканската унија и Европската унија Merginos iki vedybų - pilietinės visuomenės organizacijos ir Afrikos Sąjunga ir Europos Sąjunga Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Pertubuhan Masyarakat Sivil Kesatuan Afrika dan Kesatuan Eropah Verġni sakemm Żwieġ - Soċjetà Ċivili Organizzazzjoni ta 'l-Unjoni Afrikana u l-Unjoni Ewropea Jomfruer inntil Ekteskap - Civil Society Organization Den afrikanske union og EU تا زمان ازدواج باکره -- جامعه مدنی ، سازمان اتحادیه آفریقا واتحادیه اروپا Dziewice aż do małżeństwa - Organizacja społeczeństwa obywatelskiego Unii Afrykańskiej i Unii Europejskiej Virgens até o Casamento - Organização da Sociedade Civil da União Africana e da União Europeia Virgine pînă la căsătorie - Societatea civilă Organizaţia Uniunii Africane şi a Uniunii Europene Девственницы до брака - Гражданское общество Организация Африканского союза и Европейского союза Девице до брака - Цивилно друштво Организација Афричке уније и Европске уније Panice a panny do manželstva - Občianska spoločnosť Organizácie Africkej únie a Európska únia Device do poroke - Civilna družba Organizacije Afriške unije in Evropsko unijo Vírgenes hasta el matrimonio - Organización de la Sociedad Civil de la Unión Africana y la Unión Europea Wanawali mpaka Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya Oskulder tills Äktenskap - Civila samhället organisation av Afrikanska unionen och Europeiska unionen สาวพรหมจรรย์จนกว่าจะแต่งงาน - โยธา สังคม องค์กรของสหภาพแอฟริกาและสหภาพยุโรป Evlilik kadar Bakireler - Sivil Toplum Örgütü Afrika Birliği ve Avrupa Birliği Діви до шлюбу - Громадянське суспільство Організація Африканського союзу і Європейського союзу Trinh nữ cho đến Hôn nhân - Xã hội dân sự tổ chức của Liên minh châu Phi và Liên minh châu Âu Gwyryfon nes priodas - Cymdeithas Sifil Sefydliad yr Undeb Affricanaidd a'r Undeb Ewropeaidd יונגפרויען ביז חתונה - סיוויל געזעלשאַפֿט ארגאניזאציע פון די אפריקאנער פֿאַרבאַנד און דעם אייראָפּעישן פֿאַרבאַנד Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union

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