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Virgins until Marriage
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Virgins until Marriage
- Civil Society Organization
of the African Union
and the European Union
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"Virgins until marriage"
e-book
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Reason
# 1
Be yourself, know your rights
and don’t let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh
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Reason
# 2
Be safe, know the risks and don’t
invite deadly diseases to ruin your and your future family’s life
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Reason
# 3
Be reasonable, know what really works
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Reason
# 4
Be self-confident, know your privileges
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Reason # 5
Be secure, know the mutual committed
love of husband and wife
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Reason # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes’ arguments to outsmart them
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Reason
# 7
Be assertive, know how to love
yourself so you know what pleases and hurts
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Reason
# 8
Be patient, know how to become top
apple
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Reason
# 9
Be steadfast, know how to be
faithful to your past, present and future own
self
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Virgins
until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and
the European Union عذراء حتى الزواج -- منظمات المجتمع المدني من الاتحاد
الافريقي والاتحاد الاوروبي Maagde tot Huwelik - Civil Society
Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie Virgjëreshat e
deri Martesa - Organizata të Shoqërisë Civile të Bashkimit Afrikan dhe
Bashkimi Evropian Паннаў да шлюбу - Грамадзянскае грамадства
Арганізацыя Афрыканскага саюза і Еўрапейскага саюза Девственици до брак
- Гражданско общество Организация на Африканския съюз и на Европейския
съюз Virginitat fins al matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil
de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea 直到婚姻处女 -
民间社会组织，非洲联盟和 欧洲联盟 Djevica
do Brak - organizacija civilnog društva od Afričke unije i Europske
unije Panny do manželství - Občanská společnost Organizace Africké unie
a Evropská unie Jomfruer indtil ægteskabet - en Civilsamfundet
Organisationen for Den Afrikanske Union og Den Europæiske Union Maagde
tot Huwelijk - Civil Society Organisatie van de Afrikaanse Unie en de
Europese Unie Imb enne abielu - kodanikuühiskonna organisatsiooni
Aafrika Liidu ja Euroopa Liit Virgins hanggang Kasal - Civil Society
Organization ng African Union at ng mga European Union Vierges jusqu'au
mariage - Organisation de la société civile de l'Union africaine et
l'Union européenne Virxes ata o matrimonio - Organización da sociedade
civil da Unión Africana e da Unión Europea Jungfrauen bis Ehe-
Zivilgesellschaftlichen Organisation der Afrikanischen Union und der
Europäischen Union Παρθένες μέχρι Γάμος - Κοινωνία των πολιτών Οργάνωση
της Αφρικανικής Ένωσης και της Ευρωπαϊκής Ένωσης בתולות עד החתונה -
חברה אזרחית ארגון האיחוד האפריקאי והאיחוד האירופי Bikirori har aure,
aikin jam'iyyoyi ƙungiyar gamayyar afurka da Kungiyar Tarayyar Turai शादी तक कुंवारी -
सिविल सोसायटी अफ्रीकी संघ और यूरोपीय संघ के संगठन
Szüzek, amíg Házasság - Civil Társadalom Szervezete, az Afrikai Unió és
az Európai Unió Virgins þar Hjónaband - til borgaralegs samfélags
Samtök Afríkuríkja og Evrópusambandið Perawan sampai Pernikahan -
Organisasi Masyarakat Sipil Uni Afrika dan Uni Eropa Maighdean go dtí
go Marriage - le Sochaí Sibhialta Eagraíocht an Aontas na hAfraice agus
an Aontais Eorpaigh Vergini fino al matrimonio - Organizzazione della
società civile dell'Unione africana e l'Unione Europea 結婚するまで処女-市民社会組織は、アフリカ連合と欧州連 合の 결혼하기 전까지 처녀 -
시민 사회 조직 아프리카 연합과 유럽 연합의
Jaunavas līdz Marriage - pilsoniskās sabiedrības organizācijas no
Āfrikas Savienības un Eiropas Savienība Девици се до брак - граѓанското
општество Организација на Африканската унија и Европската унија
Merginos iki vedybų - pilietinės visuomenės organizacijos ir Afrikos
Sąjunga ir Europos Sąjunga Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Pertubuhan
Masyarakat Sivil Kesatuan Afrika dan Kesatuan Eropah IL-GŻEJJER VIRGIN
sakemm Żwieġ - Soċjetà Ċivili Organizzazzjoni ta 'l-Unjoni Afrikana u
l-Unjoni Ewropea Jomfruer inntil Ekteskap - Civil Society Organization
Den afrikanske union og EU تا زمان ازدواج باکره -- جامعه مدنی ، سازمان
اتحادیه آفریقا واتحادیه اروپا Dziewice aż do małzeństwa - Organizacja
społeczeństwa obywatelskiego Unii Afrykańskiej i Unii Europejskiej
Virgens até o Casamento - Organização da Sociedade Civil da União
Africana e da União Europeia Virgine pînă la căsătorie - Societatea
civilă Organizaţia Uniunii Africane şi a Uniunii Europene Девы до брака
- Гражданское общество Организация Африканского союза и Европейского
союза Девица до брак - Цивилно друштво Организација Афричке уније и
Европске уније Panny do manželstva - Občianska spoločnosť Organizácie
Africkej únie a Európska únia Device do poroke - Civilna družba
Organizacije Afriške unije in Evropsko unijo Vírgenes hasta el
matrimonio - Organización de la Sociedad Civil de la Unión Africana y
la Unión Europea Wanawali mpaka Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa
Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya Oskulder tills Äktenskap - Civila
samhället organisation av Afrikanska unionen och Europeiska unionen สาวพรหมจรรย์จนกว่าจะแต่งงาน -
โยธา สังคม องค์กรของสหภาพแอฟริกาและสหภาพยุโรป
Evlilik kadar Bakireler - Sivil Toplum Örgütü Afrika Birliği ve Avrupa
Birliği Девi до шлюбу - Громадянське суспільство Організація
Африканського союзу і Європейського союзу Trinh nữ cho đến Hôn nhân -
Xã hội dân sự tổ chức của Liên minh châu Phi và Liên minh châu Âu
Virgins nes Priodi - Cymdeithas Sifil Sefydliad yr Undeb Affricanaidd
a'r Undeb Ewropeaidd.
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Reason # 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes’ arguments to
outsmart them
Reason
# 6
Be smart, know the cunning foxes’ tricks to outsmart them.
Virgins seem easy prey
for mischievous predators who exploit ruthlessly fundamental human needs of
love, respect, intimacy and belonging, as well as strong sexual urges in minors,
adolescents and not-yet-married adults.
A simple trick like hugging,
especially for women, releases neurochemicals that can increase trust in the
hugger. After a hug lasting 20 seconds, the brain produces oxytocin that turns
on the trust response and dulls more critical judgment. "...from an experiment
on hugging, we also know that oxytocin is naturally released in the brain after
a 20 second hug from a partner-sealing the bond between the huggers and
triggering the brains trust circuits, so don’t let a guy hug you unless you plan
to trust him" [1].
Touching on the shoulder, the side of the waist, arms or
hands plays a similar role in seduce tactics. Generous compliments, series of
jokes, humour, funny stories, suddenly discovered common interests and hobbies,
all may lead to infatuation and its grave consequences. Experienced seducers
view their victims as nothing but sex toys. They even pretend to be passionately
in love with their prey until they get bored and find an easy excuse to cease
the relationship. The everlasting love suggestions and promises prove deceitful
soon after the virgin gives up his or her unrenewable asset. Virginity robbing
from immature virgins and virginity stealing from mature but still naive virgins
are common crimes of deception which almost never get punished and redressed.
Cunning foxes triumph over their victims with great self-satisfaction and are
applauded by other human rights violators. Some serial devirginators use
comically ridiculous arguments to manipulate their victims. Probably most stupid
is here: “Humans are no better than other animals and hence can’t resist animal
instincts".
Someone who can't tell the difference between humans and animals
is a soul denier and is far more wrong than hymen deniers, since a congenital
absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely
rare as a
part of severe genital malformations (ICD -10: Q52.0 Congenital absence of
vagina, Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva) [2].
Judging 'better' humans or
animals, forgetting elaborated courtship rituals in animals, not realizing
differences in brain size and functioning of humans and bonobo chimpanzees says
a lot about those who use such arguments to take
the virginity of the human person. Luckily, mature virgins are smarter and
know how to dismiss such as nonsense. Smart virgins know the science behind
gender dimorphism which is physical and behavioral differences associated with
sex.
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Format
for References:
Virgins
until Marriage - Civil Society Organization
of the African Union and the European Union, Dr Halat’s endless list of reasons to stay
virgin until marriage,
Reason # 6 Be smart, know the cunning foxes’ tricks to outsmart them, http://healthriskmanagement.eu/vm.html
References and more reading:
[1] The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine, MD, 2006
[2] International Classification of Diseases (ICD). ICD-10.
Considering yourself as just
an animal?
12 steps of intimacy is the norm
for human animals.
Intimate
Behavior:A Zoologist's Classic Study of
Human Intimacy
by Desmond Morris (1997
edition)
"All animal courtship patterns are organized in a typical sequence, and the
course taken by a human love affair is no exception. For convenience we can
divide the human sequence up into twelve stages, and see what happens as each
threshold is successfully passed.
1. Eye to body.
2. Eye to eye.
3.
Voice to voice.
4. Hand to hand.
5. Arm to shoulder.
6. Arm to
waist.
7. Mouth to mouth. (end of
prudent virginity)
Kissing on the mouth, combined with the full
frontal embrace, is a major step forward. For the first time there is a strong
chance of physiological arousal, if the action is prolonged or repeated. The
female may experience genital secretions and the male's penis may start to
become erect.
8. Hand to head.
As an extension of the last stage, the
hands begin to caress the partner's head. Fingers stroke the face, neck and
hair. Hands clasp the nape and the side of the head.
9. Hand to body.
In
the post-kissing phase, the hands begin to explore the partner's body,
squeezing, fondling and stroking.The major advance here is the manipulation by
the male of the female's breasts. Further physiological arousal occurs with
these acts and reaches such a pitch that, for many young females, this is a
point at which a temporary halt is called. Further developments mean increasing
difficulty in breaking off the pattern without continuing to completion, and if
the bond of attachment has not reached a sufficient level of mutual trust, more
advanced sexual intimacies are postponed.
10. Mouth to breast.
Here the
threshold is passed in which the interactions become strictly private. For most
couples this will also have applied to the last stage, especially where breast
manipulations are concerned, but advanced kissing and bodyfondling does occur
frequently in public places under certain circumstances. Such actions may cause
reactions of disapproval in other members of the public, but it is rare in most
countries for serious steps to be taken against the embracing couple. With the
advance to breast-kissing, however, the situation is entirely different, if only
because it involves the exposure of the female breast. Mouth-to-breast contacts
are the last of the pre-genital intimacies and are the prelude to actions which
are concerned not merely with arousal, but with arousal to climax.
11. Hand
to genitals. (risk to hymen
wholeness)
If the manual exploration of the partner's body continues,
it inevitably arrives at the genital region. After tentative caressing of the
partner's genitals, the actions soon develop into gentle, rhythmic rubbing that
simulates the rhythm of pelvic thrusting. The male repeatedly strokes the labia
or clitoris of the female and may insert his finger or fingers into the vagina,
imitating the action of the penis. Manual stimulation of this kind can soon lead
to orgasm for either sex, and is a common form of culmination in advanced
precopulatory encounters between lovers.
12. Genitals to genitals. (if coitus,
end of virginity, in both genders)
Finally, the stage of full copulation is reached and,
if the female is a virgin, the first irreversible act of the entire sequence
occurs with the rupture of the hymen. There is also, for the first time, the
possibility of another irreversible act, namely that of fertilization. This
irreversibility puts this concluding act in the sequence on to an entirely new
plane. Each stage will have served to tighten the bond of attachment a little
more, but, in a biological sense, this final copulatory action is clearly
related to a phase where the earlier intimacies will already have done their job
of cementing the bond, so that the pair will want to stay together after the sex
drive has been reduced by the consummation of orgasm. If this bonding has
failed, the female is liable to find herself pregnant in the absence of a stable
family unit.
These then are twelve typical stages in the
pair-formation process of a young male and female. To some extent they are, of
course, culturally determined, but to a much greater extent they are determined
by the anatomy and sexual physiology common to all members of our species. The
variations imposed by cultural traditions and conventions, and by the personal
peculiarities of certain unusual individuals, will alter this major sequence in
a number of ways, and these can now be considered against the background of die
typical sequence through which we have just passed.
The variations take three
main forms: a reduction of the sequence, an alteration in the order of the acts
and an elaboration of the pattern.
The most extreme form of reduction is
forcible mating, or rape. Here the first stage runs as quickly as is physically
possible to the last stage, with all the intervening phases condensed to
the
absolute minimum. After eye-to-body contact has been made by the male, he simply
attacks the female, omitting all arousal stages, and goes as rapidly to
genital-to-genital contact as her resistance will allow. The non-genital body
contacts are limited purely to those necessary to overpower her and strip her
genital region of clothing.
Viewed objectively, rape in the human species
lacks two important ingredients: pair-formation and sexual arousal. The rapist
male, by omitting all the intermediate stages of the sexual sequence, clearly
does not allow a bond of attachment to grow between himself and the female in
question. This is obvious enough, but it is relevant in biological terms,
because our species does require this personal attachment to develop, as a means
of safeguarding the successful rearing of the offspring that may result from the
copulation.Viewed objectively, rape in the human species lacks two important
ingredients: pair-formation and sexual arousal. The rapist male, by omitting all
the intermediate stages of the sexual sequence, clearly does not allow a bond of
attachment to grow between himself and the female in question. This is obvious
enough, but it is relevant in biological terms, because our species does require
this personal attachment to develop, as a means of safeguarding the successful
rearing of the offspring that may result from the copulation."
(rape is a
crime against nature, including human animal nature)
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Italicized words in do not belong
to the Intimate Behavior: A Zoologist's Classic Study of Human Intimacy by
Desmond Morris
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 In
his speech to the scholars
at the Catholic University of Lublin
on June 9, 1987,
John Paul
II said:
"The
human person must in the name of the truth about himself starve off a double
temptation: the temptation to make the truth about himself subordinate to his
freedom and the temptation to make himself subordinate to the world of objects;
he has to refuse to succumb to the temptation of both self-idolatry and of
self-subjectification:
Positus est in medio homo:
nec bestia—nec
deus."
Man has been placed in the middle:
neither God nor animal
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Virginity and
devirginization:
first
sexual intercourse is the most memorable milestone
of
human development from birth to death
If
you loved me truly you'd wait until we're married.
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