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Virginity until marriage is the source of world’s harmony
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dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist: We are all neighbours in our global village. Respectful distance between neighbours is the recipe for harmonious relationships. An American philosopher and logician Willard Van Orman Quine once said: no entity without identity. From the history of my nation and my own professional experience I dare to add: identity integrity determines survival. The genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person is a prerequisite for the fair integration of humanity. |
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Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union عذراء حتى الزواج -- منظمات المجتمع المدني من الاتحاد الافريقي والاتحاد الاوروبي Maagde tot het Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie Virgjër deri Martesa - Organizata të Shoqërisë Civile të Bashkimit Afrikan dhe Bashkimi Evropian Կույսեր մինչեւ Հարսանիք - ին Քաղաքացիական հասարակության կազմակերպում Աֆրիկյան Միության եւ Եվրոպական Միության Bakirə qədər nigah - Vətəndaş Cəmiyyəti Təşkilatı Afrika İttifaqı və Avropa Birliyi Birjin arte Ezkontza - Civil Society de Afrikako Batasunaren eta Europako Batasunaren Erakundea Нявінніца да шлюбу - Грамадзянскае грамадства Арганізацыя Афрыканскага саюза і Еўрапейскага саюза Девственици до брак - Гражданско общество Организация на Африканския съюз и на Европейския съюз Verges fins el matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea Virginitat fins al matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea 直到婚姻处女 - 民间社会组织，非洲联盟和欧洲联盟 Djevica do Brak - organizacija civilnog društva od Afričke unije i Europske unije Panice a panny do manželství - Občanská společnost Organizace Africké unie a Evropská unie Jomfruer indtil ægteskabet - en Civilsamfundet Organisationen for Den Afrikanske Union og Den Europæiske Union Maagde tot het Huwelijk - Civil Society Organisatie van de Afrikaanse Unie en de Europese Unie Imb enne abielu - kodanikuühiskonna organisatsiooni Aafrika Liidu ja Euroopa Liit Virgins hanggang Kasal - Civil Society Organization ng African Union at ng mga European Union Vierges jusqu'au mariage - Organisation de la société civile de l'Union africaine et l'Union européenne Virxes ata o matrimonio - Organización da sociedade civil da Unión Africana e da Unión ვირგო სანამ ქორწილი - სამოქალაქო საზოგადოების ორგანიზაცია აფრიკის კავშირის და ევროპის კავშირი Europea Jungfrauen bis Ehe - Zivilgesellschaftlichen Organisation der Afrikanischen Union und der Europäischen Union Παρθένες μέχρι Γάμος - Κοινωνία των πολιτών Οργάνωση της Αφρικανικής Ένωσης και της Ευρωπαϊκής Ένωσης Vyèrj jiskaske Maryaj - Sosyete Sivil Òganizasyon nan Inyon Afriken ak Inyon Ewopeyen an בתולות עד החתונה - חברה אזרחית ארגון האיחוד האפריקאי והאיחוד האירופי Bikirori har aure, aikin jam'iyyoyi ƙungiyar gamayyar afurka da Kungiyar Tarayyar Turai शादी तक कुंवारी - सिविल सोसायटी अफ्रीकी संघ और यूरोपीय संघ के संगठन Szüzek, amíg Házasság - Civil Társadalom Szervezete, az Afrikai Unió és az Európai Unió Meyjar þar Hjónaband - Borgaraleg Samfélag Samtök Afríkuríkja sambandsins og Evrópusambandið Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Organisasi Masyarakat Sipil Uni Afrika dan Uni Eropa Maighdeana go dtí Pósadh - le Sochaí Sibhialta Eagraíocht an Aontas na hAfraice agus an Aontais Eorpaigh Vergini fino al matrimonio - Organizzazione della società civile dell'Unione africana e l'Unione Europea 結婚するまで処女-市民社会組織は、アフリカ連合と欧州連 合の 결혼하기 전까지 처녀 - 시민 사회 조직 아프리카 연합과 유럽 연합의 Jaunavas līdz Marriage - pilsoniskās sabiedrības organizācijas no Āfrikas Savienības un Eiropas Savienība Девици се до брак - граѓанското општество Организација на Африканската унија и Европската унија Merginos iki vedybų - pilietinės visuomenės organizacijos ir Afrikos Sąjunga ir Europos Sąjunga Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Pertubuhan Masyarakat Sivil Kesatuan Afrika dan Kesatuan Eropah Verġni sakemm Żwieġ - Soċjetà Ċivili Organizzazzjoni ta 'l-Unjoni Afrikana u l-Unjoni Ewropea Jomfruer inntil Ekteskap - Civil Society Organization Den afrikanske union og EU تا زمان ازدواج باکره -- جامعه مدنی ، سازمان اتحادیه آفریقا واتحادیه اروپا Dziewice aż do małżeństwa - Organizacja społeczeństwa obywatelskiego Unii Afrykańskiej i Unii Europejskiej Virgens até o Casamento - Organização da Sociedade Civil da União Africana e da União Europeia Virgine pînă la căsătorie - Societatea civilă Organizaţia Uniunii Africane şi a Uniunii Europene Девственницы до брака - Гражданское общество Организация Африканского союза и Европейского союза Девице до брака - Цивилно друштво Организација Афричке уније и Европске уније Panice a panny do manželstva - Občianska spoločnosť Organizácie Africkej únie a Európska únia Device do poroke - Civilna družba Organizacije Afriške unije in Evropsko unijo Vírgenes hasta el matrimonio - Organización de la Sociedad Civil de la Unión Africana y la Unión Europea Wanawali mpaka Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya Oskulder tills Äktenskap - Civila samhället organisation av Afrikanska unionen och Europeiska unionen สาวพรหมจรรย์จนกว่าจะแต่งงาน - โยธา สังคม องค์กรของสหภาพแอฟริกาและสหภาพยุโรป Evlilik kadar Bakireler - Sivil Toplum Örgütü Afrika Birliği ve Avrupa Birliği Діви до шлюбу - Громадянське суспільство Організація Африканського союзу і Європейського союзу Trinh nữ cho đến Hôn nhân - Xã hội dân sự tổ chức của Liên minh châu Phi và Liên minh châu Âu Gwyryfon nes priodas - Cymdeithas Sifil Sefydliad yr Undeb Affricanaidd a'r Undeb Ewropeaidd יונגפרויען ביז חתונה - סיוויל געזעלשאַפֿט ארגאניזאציע פון די אפריקאנער פֿאַרבאַנד און דעם אייראָפּעישן פֿאַרבאַנד Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union |
Control of sexuality Can people control their sexuality? Yes, they can. And many do. Very many.
Sexuality
definition
Sexuality is a quest for satisfying union of complementary entities. The above definition of sexuality encompasses emotional and physical aspects of the most powerful phenomenon recognized by human beings.
 The four branches of the Happiness Tree dr Halat's illustration to the breaktrough ideas emerging from Healing the Culture: A Commonsense Philosophy of Happiness, Freedom, and the Life Issues by Fr. Robert J. Spitzer, SJ, PhD: Ignatius Press here reviewed and explained in plain English in What is happiness? by Christopher Kaczor, Assistant Professor of Philosophy at Loyola Marymount University, English New Oxford Book Reviews here laetus - bodily pleasure felix - good life beatitudo - serving others sublime beatitudo - God's Love Saint Anselm of Cantenbury: fides querens intellectum - faith seeking understanding here More reading: John Paul II Sollicitudo rei socialis here John Paul II 15th WORLD YOUTH DAY, VIGIL OF PRAYER here Benedict XVI 20th WORLD YOUTH DAY, CELEBRATION WELCOMING THE YOUNG PEOPLE here Cardinal Dr. Christoph Schönborn John Paul II and the Way to True Happiness here
Both holistic (God is unconditional love, God loves those who obey Him) and reductionist (erotic ways of achieving satisfactory level of brain chemicals) visions of sexuality deal with attractiveness of the loved and/or desired entity according to the judgement of the loving and/or desiring entity. The highest level of human sexuality display those who are Godlike and find all God's creature enough attractive to be loved and not sexually desired in the same time. Examples are St Francis of Assisi and Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and uncounted number of holy men and women, known and unknown. Close to the highest level of human sexuality display those who love (but do not desire sexually) their family members other than spouses, their friends, patients, students, co-religionists, compatriots and the like entities bearing an asset enough attractive to be loved according to the judgement of the loving entity. The normal level of human sexuality displays the enitity who within the frames of integrated love and desire offers his/her virginity to his/her spouse and cultivates mutually satisfying multifacet husband - wife everlasting and fruitful sexuality. Preserving one's integrity within the wedlock rarely is possible and needed because in addition to becoming one flesh which means physical integration, the husband and wife integrate morally and psychologically to establish the optimal environment to develop their family sound, free from diseases and social pathologies. Emotional and physical aspects of sexuality are interrelated and mutually potentiating and by definition involve other persons who willingly or unwillingly become subjects or objects of someone else's quest for union bearing satisfaction. The lower the level of sexuality, the less love and the more lust in it. Sexual predators pretend love notoriously, in some cases even fall in love, but as a rule concentrate on erotic ways of achieving satisfactory level of brain chemicals. For this they dehumanize their victims from whom they want nothing but flesh. The genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person is not existent in lower levels of human sexuality. The victims of oversexed predators often become trasformed into next generation of sexual predators, for whom their partners become nothing better than human sex toys to be disposed after use. The lowest level of human sexuality is love-free degenerated lust of paedophiles and ephebophiles raping their own children or commiting any other incestous acts against own or other people's children.  sexuality
definition - love - desire - lust - attractiveness
Sexuality is a quest for satisfying union of complementary entities. Why it is not easy to display the
normal level of human sexuality?
 stimulus-
sexual stimulant - sexual response - sexual transmutation -
sexual
tension
- sexual
urge
- sexual
arousal
- sexual
satisfaction
- non-sexual reward
Any
stimulus can be recognized as attractive here and now,
become a sexual stimulant, and trigger a sexual response that can end in an involuntary sexual arousal and erotic night dream or in voluntary acts: sexual transmutation or marital coitus, or erotic day dream or solo / parallel / mutual masturbation. The moral stimula: sadism. misconduct, sense of duty, pity,.. The psychological stimula: love, desire, lust, fear, shame, ... The physical stimula: touch, sight, hearing, smell, taste, ....... dr Halat, noxologist The
vast majority of mental and sensual
stimulants are as such learned(the conditioned reflexes, incl.
Pavlovian ones).
The
tactile stimulants applied to specific erogenous zones and
the pheromones
can trigger the involuntary sexual arousal without previous learning. Transmutation definition: the act of transforming sexual energy into creativity, increased productivity, happiness, health, confidence and power. For the purposes of sexual arousal and satisfaction more and more males and females resort to pornography which is an explicit sexual stimulus being recognized as attractive and becoming a sexual stimulant, and triggering a sexual response. Any stimulus can be recognized as attractive to an individual and become a sexual stimulant to him / her while being indifferent to many, and repulsing to some at the same time.  Pornography, porn for pigs : dummy sow for swine semen collection in the eyes of a boar an attractive sexual stimulant causing his sexual arousal To objectify a human person is to focus exclusively on his or her sexual attractiveness and to degrade the human person to human flesh 'long pig that speaks' Cf. White Shadows in the South Seas by Frederick O'Brien here  Sex maniacs' sexual footprints imprinting virgin minds.
 Sexual deviants dehumanize, humiliate, imprint their deviances. Contest oppression and engage in collective self-defence! The internet offers unlimited opportunities for ordinary citizens to become politically engaged, particularly to those who are victims of paraphiliacs themselves, as well as home, school, workplace careres of persons victimized by sexual deviants. Also the voice of the medical, legal and educational profession oposing aggresive dehumanization and humiliation cannot be ignored any longer.  dopamine-serotonin-adrenaline.com The satisfactory level of brain chemicals obtained by marital coitus is a reward for all efforts done by husband and wife for establishing a harmonious family and raising happy children
 Unearned reward? No. Thanks. It's demotivational. Providing with something valuable for nothing, or giving an unearned reward to those who do not deserve it, is demotivational. Without motivation people are not capable to achieve goals. Motivation is the willingness to expend a certain amount of effort to achieve a particular goal. (Biehler, R. & Snowman, J. (1990) Psychology Applied to Teaching, 6th edn. Boston: Houghton Mifflin) Motivation being rooted in a basic need to minimize physical pain and maximize pleasure, can be easily devastated by factors which undermine, weaken, or break the link between effort and reward.
Disastrous lust
(μαχλοσύνην ἀλεγεινήν, luxuria calamitosa, الكارثية شهوة ) Sexual desire degradated to lust is a powerful weapon of mass destruction sooner or later severely damaging sexual predators themselves, as well as their direct an indirect victims, whole familes, communities and nations. Being one of 7 deadly sins, lust (Latin: luxuria) is defined as " obsessive, unlawful depraved thought, or unnatural desire for sexual excitement, such as desiring sex with a person outside marriage or engaging in unnatural sexual appetites. " " Lustfulness is a tendency to feel sexual desire too much and seek sexual pleasures too much. Lust is not a virtue because it is a tendency to feel too much sexual desire and to respond to it too indiscriminately. Lust lies at the extreme of excess." (Aristotle on Virtue) " Lust prevents clarity of thought and rational behavior. " " Lust is the self-destructive drive for pleasure out of proportion to its worth. " " Lust offers only a moment of pleasure, but we live as if it will bring lasting happiness. " Sex, power, or image can be used well, but they tend to go out of control. " " The demon of lust responsible for twisting people's sexual desires is Asmodeus - .demon of lust, personally responsible for stirring up matrimonial trouble. Maybe it was because he came from the original dysfunctional family. Asmodeus routinely did everything he could to keep husbands and wives from having intercourse, while encouraging them at every turn to indulge their pent-up drives in adulterous and sinful affairs."
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Disastrous
lust is to be blamed for the most famous of ancient wars,
the Trojan War and destruction of Troja. described by Homer and Virgil
ἄτης atê: "Always, or practically always, atê is a state of mind - a temporary clouding or bewildering of the normal consciousness. It is, in fact, a temporary insanity; and like all insanity, it is ascribed not to physiological or psychological causes, but to an external, 'daemonic' agency" E. R. Dodds, The Greeks and the Irrational (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1951) and
recently
recalled
by Blind Guardian, a German power metal band
Desire, lust, obssession ***
Most commonly disastrous lust results in unfaithfulness, infidelity, treachery, treason and ends in breaking vows, oaths, covenants, promises, homages etc. The following are two examples of disastrous lust's catastrophic outcomes affecting whole nations.
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Concupiscence
From
Latin: con-, with + cupi, cupid
- desire (usually sexual)
+ -escere - suffix denoting beginning of a process or state) In
its widest acceptation, concupiscence is any yearning of the soul for
good;
In its strict and specific acceptation, a desire of the lower appetite contrary to reason. Desires contrary to the real good and order of reason may, and often do, rise in it, previous to the attention of the mind, and once risen, dispose the bodily organs to the pursuit and solicit the will to consent, while they more or less hinder reason from considering their lawfulness or unlawfulness .This is concupiscence in its strict and specific sense. The opposition between appetite and reason is natural in man. Temptations to sin, becoming the stronger and the more frequent the oftener they have been indulged. As thus far considered they are only sinful objects and antecedent causes of sinful transgressions; they contract the malice of sin only when consent is given by the will; not as though their nature were changed, but because they are adopted and completed by the will and so share its malice. Hence the distinction of concupiscence anteceden and concupiscence consequent to the consent of the will; the latter is sinful, the former is not. full
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CATHOLIC ENCYCLOPEDIA : Concupiscence more: Reason # 1 Be yourself, know your rights and don’t let God deniers transform you into a piece of flesh Unreasonable
(sexual) appetite - concupiscence
if resisted must NOT necessarily bear bitter fruits of disastrous lust, inordinate desire, illicit desire (ἐπιθυμία, شهوة shahwa [ cf. The Canon of Medicine by Avicenna - پور سينا Pur Sina, ابن سينا Ibn Sina ]. ΟΕΔ (ὅπερ ἔδει δεῖξαι - what was required to be proved).  Continence problems are common and affect people of all ages Continence: - the trait of practicing self discipline - discipline in personal and social activitie - the exercise of self constraint in sexual matters Single people must practice continence until marriage, married people have to practice temporary continence but we humans are errant. Not married yet? Having compulsive and illicit fantasies? Married but separated temporarily? The spouse's not able or not willing? and your strong urges become unbearable? Find a lesser evil prudent masturbation lesser evil than pervert fornication Fornication: sexual intercourse between two people not married to each other: - premarital sexual intercourse - extramarital sexual intercourse A deadly mix
of fatal curiosity and disastrous lust
Sexual curiosity and experimentation are normal but fatal curiosity punishes itself. Lustful curiosity can change otherwise normal people into sexual predators. Convicted pedophiles who rape minors and condemned ephebophiles who ruin lives of mid-to-late adolescents are just the tip of the iceberg of those who persuade, induce, entice, or coerce minor children and adolescents to engage in activities which shorten the inborn stage of virginity. Reason # 4 Be self-confident, know your privileges. A gradual surrender to lustful
curiosity unleashes evil urges
to commit morally and legally forbidden acts of sexual abuse, paedophiliac / ephebophiliac incest or sexual abuse by vocational professionals, in the worst case scenario. Where do pervert parents and deviant vocational professionals come from? Some of them come from incestuous families, promiscuous neighbourhoods, and most of them come from sex-soaked societies or nations. Nevertheless, there is no excuse for sexual abuse. If captured and convicted sexual predators get a just punishment for their crimes which is still less severe than their conscience pangs should bring. fatal curiosity + disastrous lust = professional death Public confidence in vocational professionals (priests, medical doctors, teachers, policemen, and the like) is based on trust in those who take and keep such vowes like the Hippocratic Oath, attributed to Hippocrates of Cos, Ιπποκράτης ο Κώος . (460 BC – ca. 370 BC), one of the oldest binding documents in history
Are you
overinterested in someone's private parts structure and function?
Are you thinking about someone whose sexuality you could explore? Are you getting aroused by a morally / legally forbidden stimulus? Are you fantasising about yourself as a sexual predator? If so, you are not alone. It is human to be tempted, and to resist temptations.
God's mercy and love for us has
no end
but according to human justice people should get what they deserve. Therefore, never try to bring your insane fantasies into practice. Do not take a risk of recognizing illicit stimula as sexually attractive and not repulsing. Otherwise you will find yourself and a victim of your pervert sexuality in a lose-lose situation soon. The fatal curiosity, whether provoked or not, can find its wording in a typical set of silent questions filling the sexual predator's mind which compulsively or without any warning precede illicit activities towards the abuse of other preson to satisfy one's disastrous lust: How would he / she react to talk about sex? Would nudity be for him / her appealing or appaling? What do his / her private parts look like? How would he / she react to intimate touch? Would he / she be embarrassed of being viewed naked? Would he / she be ashamed of being touched intimately? How would he / she look like being embarrassed / ashamed? How would he / she respond to the tactile stimulation applied to erogenous zones? What do his / her private parts in the state of sexual arousal look like? How would he / she behave being sexually aroused ot climaxing? Would he / she get orgasm by masturbation? Would he / she allow penetrative sex? Is he / she good in bed? Seeking answers to the above questions in real life via any means of communication, including the internet will be punished sooner or later.
What do others do to
eradicate sexual abuse of children and young people? Promiscuity Virginity Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance United States, 2009 Eaton Danice K. et al, Division of Adolescent and School Health, National Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion Centers for Disease Control and Prevention The Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System monitors six categories of priority health-risk behaviors, among them sexual behaviors that contribute to unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) infection.
Epidemiological Evidence of Widespread Rapes of Children in the United States, 1991 - 2009 by sex and race/ethnicity Percentage of high school students who had sexual intercourse for the first time before age of 13 years were robbed of their virginity Source of Numerical Data: MMWR more Lack of shame leads to promiscuity.
Sigmund Freud claimed that a person's life is conditioned by two major forces: self-preservation instincts, by means of which people preserve their own existence, and sexual instincts, by means of which they ensure the survival of the species: "I have proposed that two groups of such primal instincts should be distinguished: the ego, or self-preservative, instincts and the sexual instincts." Freud S.. Instincts and their vicissitudes (1915)
Recent studies on human sexuality have highlighted that sexual aspects are of major importance in building up personal identity and in the social evolution of individuals: "Human sexuality is not simply imposed by instinct or stereotypical conducts, as it happens in animals, but it is influenced both by superior mental activity and by social, cultural, educational and normative characteristics of those places where the subjects grow up and their personality develops. Consequently, the analysis of sexual sphere must be based on the convergence of several lines of development such as affectivity, emotions and relations." Boccadoro L., Carulli S., (2008) Il posto dell'amore negato. Sessualità e psicopatologie segrete (The place of the denied love. Sexuality and secret psychopathologies - Abstract). Tecnoprint Editrice, Ancona. ISBN 978-88-95554-03-7
 
Percent
of Americans who have ever masturbated
Masturbation
denotes all forms of sexual stimulation outside of the conjugal act
which is suitable in itself for the procreation of offspring, to which
marriage is ordered by its nature and by which the spouses become one
flesh. Any
attempts to avoid pregnancy can fail, and this is why no marital
intercourse may be classified as masturbation. Sexual
intercourse (also called coitus, or copulation) is reproductive act in
which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract,
if the reproductive act is complete, sperm
cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process
fertilizing the female egg and forming a new organism. This biological definition explains the
ultimate goal of sexual intercourse and corresponds well with St.
Thomas Aquinas teaching. On the basis of teleology,
every emission of seed that takes place in such a way that generation
cannot result or suitably result is against the good of the human
being. Thus, if this is purposely done, it is a sin. The inordinate
emission of seed opposes the good of the nature which is the
preservation of the species. Consequently, all forms
of sexual stimulation outside of the conjugal act may be classified as
masturbation. If so,
those who cannot control their sexuality should
Source
of numerical data:
Cumulative Incidence of Masturbation, 8- to 29-years-old males (1948) Kinsey et al.
 Frequency of masturbation over past year: ..........4 times per week or more......... ............2 to 3 times per week............. ....A few times per month to weekly..... ......A few times per year to monthly..... ...................Not in past year................. single - partnered - married males and females Source of numerical data: Herbenick et al. Sexual Behavior US Probability Sample National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior Center for Sexual Health Promotion JSM Volume 7, Supplement 5, October 2010
The three dams strategy of control of sexuality
Rivers of life before junction. Innocence (what is sex?) Purity (no sex) Prudence (no direct contact sex) Virginity (no penis - in - vagina sex).
Innocence No sex awareness.
Parents and guardians should extend this stage of human development to an as late age as possible, at best to puberty .
Innocence can be lost before puberty by exploring the world, particularly the forbidden areas of it. To minimize disastrous outcomes of too early sexualization of children, parents and guardians should keep a friendly and loving family approach to the risk, as well as two clearly set rules (1) ‘no dirty touch’ and (2) ‘naked body privacy’, and consequently, more calm than exaggerated disapproval of breaking the rules.
Spontaneous discoveries including playing doctor among peers or pleasant sensations resulting from self-stimulation must be clearly distinguished from the outcomes of the intentional sluttification of the young. The last ones are preventable by means of moral (religion based), and legal (universal human rights based) measures.
Premature preoccupation with sexuality distracts the child from his or her normal developmental efforts and step by step blocks all paths of creativity except of the sex related ones. Parents’ and guardians’ responsibility may be dulled by insane pseudoscientific hoaxes, intense campaigns of sex obsessed sluttifiers, and anti democratic governments actions openly violating human rights.
Innocence ends in quest for sexual pleasure. Imprinting mechanisms can be responsible for ruined lives and ruined lives of victims of those who lost their innocence prematurely.
Purity No sex Info coming soon
Purity ends in surrender to sexual temptations.
Prudence No direct contact sex Info coming soon
Prudence ends with a direct contact sex.
Virginity No penis - in - vagina sex (no oral nor anal sex as well)
Virginity denotes the state of a person who has not taken part in sexual intercourse; sexual intercourse (also called coitus, or copulation) is reproductive act in which the male reproductive organ enters the female reproductive tract, if the reproductive act is complete, sperm cells are passed from the male body into the female, in the process fertilizing the female egg and forming a new organism. This biological definition explains the ultimate goal of sexual intercourse and corresponds well with St. Thomas Aquinas teaching. On the basis of teleology, every emission of seed that takes place in such a way that generation cannot result or suitably result is against the good of the human being. Thus, if this is purposely done, it is a sin. The inordinate emission of seed opposes the good of the nature which is the preservation of the species. Virginity of the spouses ends in consummation of a marriage, which is a conjugal act which is suitable in itself for the procreation of offspring, to which marriage is ordered by its nature and by which the spouses become one flesh. First sexual intercourse is the most memorable milestone of human development, this is why virginity offered to the spouse is the most precious wedding gift. Obviously, virginity lost before marriage cannot be offered since this valuable asset is unrenewable. Warning Oral and anal penetration do not take virginity but can be more dangerous than sexual intercourse. Oral and anal penetration, involving insertion of the penis into the mouth or the anus, do not take virginity, but in participants of these sexual practices result in more sexually transmitted infections than the vaginal penetration. Why? The answer is here: Sexually Transmitted Disease Prevention
Virginity ends in sexual intercourse.
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