Virginity until marriage is the source

of world’s harmony

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Virgins until Marriage

dr Z Halat, medical epidemiology consultant, noxologist: We are all neighbours in our global village. Respectful distance between neighbours is the recipe for harmonious relationships. An American philosopher and logician Willard Van Orman Quine once said: no entity without identity. From the history of my nation and my own professional experience I dare to add:  identity integrity determines survival. The genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person is a prerequisite for the fair integration of humanity.

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Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union عذراء حتى الزواج -- منظمات المجتمع المدني من الاتحاد الافريقي والاتحاد الاوروبي  Maagde tot het Huwelik - Civil Society Organisasie van die Afrika Unie en die Europese Unie Virgjër deri Martesa - Organizata të Shoqërisë Civile të Bashkimit Afrikan dhe Bashkimi Evropian Կույսեր մինչեւ Հարսանիք - ին Քաղաքացիական հասարակության կազմակերպում Աֆրիկյան Միության եւ Եվրոպական Միության Bakirə qədər nigah - Vətəndaş Cəmiyyəti Təşkilatı Afrika İttifaqı və Avropa Birliyi Birjin arte Ezkontza - Civil Society de Afrikako Batasunaren eta Europako Batasunaren Erakundea Нявінніца да шлюбу - Грамадзянскае грамадства Арганізацыя Афрыканскага саюза і Еўрапейскага саюза Девственици до брак - Гражданско общество Организация на Африканския съюз и на Европейския съюз Verges fins el matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea Virginitat fins al matrimoni - Organització de la Societat Civil de la Unió Africana i la Unió Europea 直到婚姻处女 - 民间社会组织，非洲联盟和欧洲联盟 Djevica do Brak - organizacija civilnog društva od Afričke unije i Europske unije Panice a panny do manželství - Občanská společnost Organizace Africké unie a Evropská unie Jomfruer indtil ægteskabet - en Civilsamfundet Organisationen for Den Afrikanske Union og Den Europæiske Union Maagde tot het Huwelijk - Civil Society Organisatie van de Afrikaanse Unie en de Europese Unie Imb enne abielu - kodanikuühiskonna organisatsiooni Aafrika Liidu ja Euroopa Liit Virgins hanggang Kasal - Civil Society Organization ng African Union at ng mga European Union Vierges jusqu'au mariage - Organisation de la société civile de l'Union africaine et l'Union européenne Virxes ata o matrimonio - Organización da sociedade civil da Unión Africana e da Unión ვირგო სანამ ქორწილი - სამოქალაქო საზოგადოების ორგანიზაცია აფრიკის კავშირის და ევროპის კავშირი Europea Jungfrauen bis Ehe - Zivilgesellschaftlichen Organisation der Afrikanischen Union und der Europäischen Union Παρθένες μέχρι Γάμος - Κοινωνία των πολιτών Οργάνωση της Αφρικανικής Ένωσης και της Ευρωπαϊκής Ένωσης Vyèrj jiskaske Maryaj - Sosyete Sivil Òganizasyon nan Inyon Afriken ak Inyon Ewopeyen an בתולות עד החתונה - חברה אזרחית ארגון האיחוד האפריקאי והאיחוד האירופי Bikirori har aure, aikin jam'iyyoyi ƙungiyar gamayyar afurka da Kungiyar Tarayyar Turai शादी तक कुंवारी - सिविल सोसायटी अफ्रीकी संघ और यूरोपीय संघ के संगठन Szüzek, amíg Házasság - Civil Társadalom Szervezete, az Afrikai Unió és az Európai Unió Meyjar þar Hjónaband - Borgaraleg Samfélag Samtök Afríkuríkja sambandsins og Evrópusambandið Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Organisasi Masyarakat Sipil Uni Afrika dan Uni Eropa Maighdeana go dtí Pósadh - le Sochaí Sibhialta Eagraíocht an Aontas na hAfraice agus an Aontais Eorpaigh Vergini fino al matrimonio - Organizzazione della società civile dell'Unione africana e l'Unione Europea 結婚するまで処女-市民社会組織は、アフリカ連合と欧州連 合の 결혼하기 전까지 처녀 - 시민 사회 조직 아프리카 연합과 유럽 연합의 Jaunavas līdz Marriage - pilsoniskās sabiedrības organizācijas no Āfrikas Savienības un Eiropas Savienība Девици се до брак - граѓанското општество Организација на Африканската унија и Европската унија Merginos iki vedybų - pilietinės visuomenės organizacijos ir Afrikos Sąjunga ir Europos Sąjunga Perawan sampai Pernikahan - Pertubuhan Masyarakat Sivil Kesatuan Afrika dan Kesatuan Eropah Verġni sakemm Żwieġ - Soċjetà Ċivili Organizzazzjoni ta 'l-Unjoni Afrikana u l-Unjoni Ewropea Jomfruer inntil Ekteskap - Civil Society Organization Den afrikanske union og EU تا زمان ازدواج باکره -- جامعه مدنی ، سازمان اتحادیه آفریقا واتحادیه اروپا Dziewice aż do małżeństwa - Organizacja społeczeństwa obywatelskiego Unii Afrykańskiej i Unii Europejskiej Virgens até o Casamento - Organização da Sociedade Civil da União Africana e da União Europeia Virgine pînă la căsătorie - Societatea civilă Organizaţia Uniunii Africane şi a Uniunii Europene Девственницы до брака - Гражданское общество Организация Африканского союза и Европейского союза Девице до брака - Цивилно друштво Организација Афричке уније и Европске уније Panice a panny do manželstva - Občianska spoločnosť Organizácie Africkej únie a Európska únia Device do poroke - Civilna družba Organizacije Afriške unije in Evropsko unijo Vírgenes hasta el matrimonio - Organización de la Sociedad Civil de la Unión Africana y la Unión Europea Wanawali mpaka Ndoa - Civil Society Organization wa Umoja wa Afrika na Umoja wa Ulaya Oskulder tills Äktenskap - Civila samhället organisation av Afrikanska unionen och Europeiska unionen สาวพรหมจรรย์จนกว่าจะแต่งงาน - โยธา สังคม องค์กรของสหภาพแอฟริกาและสหภาพยุโรป Evlilik kadar Bakireler - Sivil Toplum Örgütü Afrika Birliği ve Avrupa Birliği Діви до шлюбу - Громадянське суспільство Організація Африканського союзу і Європейського союзу Trinh nữ cho đến Hôn nhân - Xã hội dân sự tổ chức của Liên minh châu Phi và Liên minh châu Âu Gwyryfon nes priodas - Cymdeithas Sifil Sefydliad yr Undeb Affricanaidd a'r Undeb Ewropeaidd יונגפרויען ביז חתונה - סיוויל געזעלשאַפֿט ארגאניזאציע פון די אפריקאנער פֿאַרבאַנד און דעם אייראָפּעישן פֿאַרבאַנד Virgins until Marriage - Civil Society Organization of the African Union and the European Union

Virginity testing

Dr Halat’s arguments against non-professional virginity testing

save the above poster (pdf )

All women are born with a hymen.

A congenital absence of hymen exceptionally occurs, however is extremely rare

as a part of severe genital  malformations:

Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina

Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva

International Statistical Classification of Diseases

and Related Health Problems

10th Revision Version for 2007 ( ICD -10 )

Chapter XVII:

Congenital malformations, deformations and

chromosomal abnormalities (Q00-Q99)

: Q52.0 Congenital absence of vagina

: Q52.7 Congenital absence of vulva

There are many different types of hymens.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymens

 can be torn with finger(s), object(s), and penis(es)

and if torn they remain torn and present notches  / clefts

or they heal with scars hardly detectable

without specialist testing techniques.

Typical tornable / stretchable hymen

Two types of hymens that stand at opposite poles

as regards their value in professional virginity testing

are described below.

Typical  elastic hymen

can be stretched with fingers(s), object(s), and penis(es)

and regains its original shape sooner or later after.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a finger or an object

does not end virginity.

Stretching the elastic hymen with a penis ends virginity.

Because the elastic hymen regains it shape sooner or later after stretching(s)

the regular medical examination results are inconclusive,

some specialist testing techniques are available though.

Typical  elastic hymen

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen

has sieve openings or a partitioned opening,

and if found on medical examination is an indisputable proof of virginity.

Like any other type of hymen the halat hymen

can be torn with a finger, object, and penis.

Tearing the halat hymen with a penis ends virginity.

Tearing the halat hymen with a finger or an object

does not end virginity but deprives the virgin

of her indisputable proof of virginity.

Fraud-proof hymen - halat hymen

The imperforate, cribriform, and septate hymens frequencies of occurrence differ considerably due to variety of interrelated genetic and environmental factors influencing the reproductive system development. The global average estimated from scarce medical evidence could range from 3 % to 4 %. In some populations the imperforate hymen can be diagnosed in 0.1 % of newborns and requires a small surgical intervention as soon as possible after birth to enable undisturbed development of the genital tract and save the girl from unnecessary suffering and embarrassment in case the surgery would be postponed until she develops signs and symptoms of hematocolpos during puberty. If the surgery is properly done and well documented, the patient reaching her marriageable age enjoys the same opportunities of offering her husband a fraud-free hymen as other halat hymen gifted women do.

The hymen

The non-professional virginity testing can cause a hymenal injury

उंगली परीक्षण नुकसान पहुंचा सकता है हैमेन
Finger test can damage the hymen

Do not mistake reshaped, healed or mended hymen for intact hymen.
Do not confuse sexual embarrassment blushing
with sexual excitement flushing.

PROTECT YOURSELF FROM FRAUD
SECURE YOUR SPOUSE'S VIRGINITY TRUTH

Virginity fraud also known as virginity lie
(more than zero makes a crowd)
versus
Virginity genuineness also known as virginity truth
(only two of us)



A Virgin: Is his/her V-card fraudulent or genuine?

 

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Beware those who rely solely upon non-professional virginity testing.
The Dark Ages of the Third Millennium witness great progress in popularity
of the obscurant medieval procedure to trick the groom, i. e. hymenorrhaphy.

Beware those who rely solely upon non-professional virginity testing.
The Dark Ages of the Third Millennium witness great progress in popularity
of the obscurant medieval procedure to trick the groom, i. e. hymenorrhaphy.

The most renown hymen darner - Celestina
- la vieja alcahueta era maestra de hacer virgos:
virguera, remendar virgos, reedificar doncellas, zurcir virginidades.
Celestina was a pimp, a retired prostitute, guided by ambition, bribery, lust,
sensuality, drunkenness, and exploitation of those suffering and in need.
La Celestina o Tragicomedia de Calisto y Melibea de Fernando de Rojas (in Spanish and English)
"Spanish dramatists of the Golden Age : a bio-bibliographical sourcebook" by Mary Parker.
La litografía de Lorenzo Goñi.

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What do doctors know about hymens? How doctors, midwives, nurses and other medical practitioners can verify virginity? Andreas Vesalius, the founder of modern human anatomy, in the 16th century, was the first to use ‘hymen’ specifically for the membrane of the vaginal opening. Vesalius belonged to a family of physicians, and represented the fifth generation in that profession (cf. Andreas Vesalius, a Bio-bibliographic Study by I Norwich, Surgeon, Edenvale Hospital, Transvaal in S. A. Medical Journal. 29 April 1967). In his vast writings, only tree instances of mentioning the hymen can be found. The first time in: Epistola rationem modumque propinandi radicis Chynae decocti, quo nuper inuictissimus Carolus V. Imperator usus est, A pertractans. Basel: Johannes Oporinus, October 1546. Andreas Vesalius Letter on the China Root, 1546 Vesalius wrote: "When I had returned from my visit to France I was invited by the physician of the Countess of Egmont to attend the autopsy of an eighteen-year-old girl of noble birth who, because of an enduring paleness of complexion and difficulty in breathing – although otherwise of agreeable ppearance – was thought by her uncle to have been poisoned. Since the dissection had been undertaken by a thoroughly unskilled barber I could not keep my hand from the work, although except for two crude dissections lasting three days, which I had seen at school in Paris, I had never been present at one. From constriction of the thorax by a corset the girl had been accustomed to wear so that her waist might appear long and willowy, I judged that the complaint lay in a compression of the torso around the hypochondria and lungs. Although she had suffered from an ailment of the lungs, yet the astonishing compression of the organs in the hypochondria appeared to us to be the cause of her ailment, even though we found nothing that would indicate strangulation of the uterus except some swelling of the ovaries. After the attendant woman had left to shed their corsets as quickly as possible and the rest of the spectators had departed, in company with the physician I dissected the girl's uterus for the sake of her hymen. The hymen, however, was not entirely whole but had not quite disappeared, as I have found is usually the case in female cadavers in which one can barely the place where it had been. It looked as if the girl had ripped the hymen with her fingers either for some frivolous reason or according to Rhaze's prescription against strangulation of the uterus without the intervention of a man." (explanation here) Two more instances of mentioning the hymen by Vesalius can be found in 'De Humani Corporis Fabrica', 1543, republished in 1555, according to I Norwich 'the first major work of science in the modern manner and it lays the foundations of the modern disciplines of human and comparative anatomy. Vesalius wrote: "I found a hymen in [a hunchback girl of seventeen], as well as in the nun at least thirty-six years old...” Source: Andreas Vesalius of Brussels, 1514-1564 by Charles Donald O'Malley *** How it is five centuries after Vesalius? All babies should be routinely examined immediately after delivery and the newborn record should document congenital anomalies and anatomical variants, including the type of hymen, what is necessary taking into account high incidence of the imperforate hymen (in some populations more than 1 in a thousand of newborns) that requires a small surgical intervention as soon as possible after birth to enable undisturbed development of the genital tract. Obstetricians, midwives and any other birth attendants are most often the only ones who see the intact hymens in a population defined by delivering women's patient selection. Child and adolescent gynecologists, sometimes pediatricians or just family doctors, nurses / general practitioners / school doctors are the second group who can see the hymen while examining their female patients up to 18 years of age [International Convention on the Rights of the Child adopted by the UN General Assembly on 20 November 1989: a child means every human being below the age of eighteen years] for variety of genital ailments. The patient record should document the type of hymen and its wholeness before and after examination. No need to mention how important is to respect patient's privacy and dignity as well as to maintain security of medical records. The same applies to gynecologists, dermatologists and venerologists who see juvenile and adult patients. Each medical practitioner may have a strong opinion about frequency of different types of hymens and incidence of hymenal injuries among patient sub-groups seen (age, ethinicty, religion, virginity presumably preserved or lost) but the bias (due to patient selection and the sensitive nature of sexual behaviour) is so bad that such a clinical "epidemiology"proves nothing else but anecdotal evidence. Forensic medicine specialists is the third group who can see the hymen and the first one to produce objective information for use in the legal system. In case of rape, incest or any other sexual crime revealed, the victim's hymen examination professionality sometimes can be a matter of life and death. As indicated above, the type I error (false positives) or type II error (false negatives) rates of non-professional examination of the hymen can be astonishingly high and haphazardly support false denials and false allegations. Additional and not uncommonly decisive evidence may be obtained from forensic examination of medical records kept in outpatient clinics and hospitals attended by the alleged victim of the sexual crime. The outdated definitions of rape focused (and in many legal systems still do) on vaginal penetration or even sexual intercourse and the integrity of the hymen was and still is critical in the diagnosis of female sexual abuse. New definitions of rape: "the penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim"(FBI 2012) and "a physical invasion of a sexual nature committed on a person under circumstances which are coercive" (International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda 1998) reflect the progressive and genuine respect for moral, psychological, and physical integrity of each human person.

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ٹوٹا ہوا فرج پردہٴ کے ساتھ بہت سی کنواریاں ہیں
There are many virgins with broken hymens

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SCIENTIFIC FACTS ABOUT MALE AND FEMALE VIRGINITY

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How can I tell if my fiancé (my husband-to-be) is a virgin?
How can I tell if my fiancée (my wife-to-be) is a virgin,
while she belongs to 97 - 96% majority of women not gifted with the halat hymen
or her halat hymen has been be torn with a finger or an object?

DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHETHER
YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE IS A VIRGIN?

FIRST, KNOW WELL HIS OR HER VALUES :

 

Values form soul and flesh.

The eyes: the mirrors of the soul. The cheeks: the thrones of modesty. Les yeux : les miroirs de l'âme. Les joues : les trônes de la pudeur. "L'on nomme les joues les trônes de la pudeur parce que la pudeur rougit cette partie du visage, comme la crainte en rougit le haut, la colère les extrémités, et ainsi des autres passions; et, celle-ci étant plus ordinaire au sexe qui rougit souvent d'entendre dire ou de voir faire les choses qui lui plaisent le plus, on appelle les joues les trônes de la pudeur, parce qu'elle y règne avec empire." Antoine Baudeau sieur de Somaize Le grand dictionnaire des précieuses ou la clef de la langue des ruelles

Depiction of Virginity

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SECOND, KNOW WELL HIS OR HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS:


Teenage Virginity Predictive Index
by four characteristics
Hispanic origin and race: Hispanic or Latino
Hispanic origin and race: Non-Hispanic white
Hispanic origin and race: Non-Hispanic black
Mother’s age at first birth: Under 20 years
Mother’s age at first birth: 20 years or over
Mother’s education: No high school diploma or GED
Mother’s education: High school diploma or GED
Mother’s education: Some college or higher
Family structure at age 14: Both biological or adoptive parents
Family structure at age 14: Other

Percent of virgins among American teens:
child and adolescent boys
child and adolescent girls
National Survey of Family Growth 1988, 1995, 2002, 2006-2010
Number of never-married males and females 15-19 years of age
who have never had sexual intercourse:
United States, 1988, 1995, 2002, and 2006-2010
Source of numerical data:
Data from the National Survey of Family Growth
U.S. DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
National Center for Health Statistics

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THIRD, RESPECT GENDER DIFFERENCE,
MANY FEMALES SIMPLY DON'T KNOW
IF THEY ARE OR THEY ARE NOT VIRGINS
AND / OR WHETHER THEIR HYMEN IS INTACT OR NOT:

Subjective opinion:
I am a virgin with an intact hymen.
Meaning: I never had sexual intercourse and my hymen has not been injured
(stretched and/or torn)
Question 1.
Were you protected well enough in your infancy and early childhood?
Question 2.
Did you ever lose consciousness or experience a period of being dazed and confused
because of  an injury to your head, coma or consciousness impairing disease or intoxication
(i. e. alcohol, substance)?
If answer is yes: were you protected well enough a time
when you had little/none control over you body?
Question 3.
Did you ever masturbate or have had a direct sexual contact
involving stimulation of your vaginal vestibule?

Vaginal vestibule (the antechamber to the vagina) extends from the exterior surface of the hymen to the frenulum of the clitoris anteriorly, the fourchette posteriorly, and Hart line laterally. Hart's line is the junction of the keratinized skin of the labia minora with the non-keratinized mucosa of the vestibule (more here).

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